Tom was born in Kamsack, Saskatchewan on March 7, 1940, to Peter and Mabel Gorkoff. Tom graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Saskatchewan. After graduation, Tom moved to Calgary to embark on a career in Calgary’s Oil and Gas Industry. It wasn’t long after Tom’s arrival that he met Judy, and they were married 11 months later. Tom was the best man for Dick Gajek and Judy was the maid of honour for her sister Karen at Karen and Dick’s wedding. Two best friends marrying two sisters made for some really great times!
Later, Tom and Judy with Scott, Kristy, and Choo Choo in tow, moved to Oak Bay, Victoria. This new place quickly became home in their hearts. Tom and Judy loved to be on the ocean and were often found fishing on the weekends with a bucket of KFC, cruising around the local islands and enjoying all that life had to offer. If Tom was not on the ocean, he could be found in his yard gardening. Tom had quite the green thumb and his passion to have a green lawn and a perfectly tended garden. All of this was wonderful, but it was the friendships they made along the way that made this special place home. After two short years, Tom’s work brought the whole family back to Calgary.
Throughout Tom’s early years, he enjoyed several sports and activities. Tom was a Saskatchewan Roughrider fan, while Judy was a Calgary Stampeders fan and ex- cheerleader. This rivalry was more fun to watch than the game. Tom was an avid curler and curled in several petroleum leagues plus bonspiels. Tom’s passion for curling took him off the ice as well. He was an enthusiastic spectator and travelled to many Briers and Bonspiels collecting curling pins along the way. Little did we know his collection of curling pins would grow so big.
Tom was a member of the Willow Park Golf course for over 20 years. He golfed with a group of guys on men’s night who called themselves “The Hackers” and for good reason! Golf brought this group of men together, but the bond of friendship kept them close. Tom’s greatest passion was pin trading. Following the Calgary Olympics in 1988, Tom created the Calgary International Pin Club, which is still active today. He is known for collecting the most complete set of 1988 Winter Olympics pins and spent time on the radio years after the Olympics answering questions about all pins and their worth.
Tom retired from his rewarding engineering career in 2008. Tom and Judy were free to move back to their happy place in Oak Bay, Victoria. They became members of the Victoria Golf Club, where he golfed with old friends and made several new ones. As time went on, Tom had his routine. You could find him walking to the marina for a coffee most afternoons. In the early evening, he would sit on the balcony and watch the ocean while listening to his favorite Tenors. Wherever you found him, he would be wearing his old burgundy golf hat.
As we move through Tom’s life, his greatest adoration of all was his family. Most recently, his grandchildren were the light of his life. He watched them grow and enjoyed his time with the kids at the tidal pools, out for dim sum, watching their hockey games, and listening to their stories. Tom was sentimental and a proud Grandpapa.
What people seem to remember the most about Tom is his sense of humour and his big smile. You can now see that big smile in his own children and grandchildren. He has left us a reminder of himself in all our memories. Tom was a loving husband, father, grandpapa, uncle and friend. He will be missed very much, but thankfully his memory will be with us all forever.
You will be missed greatly Tom, Tommy, Dad, Grandpapa! xo
If friends so desire, please donate to the Canadian Cancer Society in Tom’s name.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Brian & Betty Fleming
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Wilma Greig Dear Judy & family,
Gillie & I were so sad to hear about Tom,& hope all the lovely wishes from friends will help you through these sad times.We will all miss that wonderful smile!
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Gwen James As youngsters living in Calgary, Tom and Judy were our next door neighboors. My sister and I as children knew that their door was always open for us to ‘invite’ ourselves over for a hoot of a time in their kitchen, at their piano, or in their yard. I have very fond memories of growing up with such special neighboors who were always so warm and welcoming to us. Judy – I hope that you can find peace with your family and friends while the community says our collective goodbyes to Tom. All the best.
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Michele Chovanez Kristy, my heart is with you all during this difficult time. I only met your Dad once but he left such an impression with his wide smile and warmth. I know he will be greatly missed.
It is never easy saying goodbye to those we love, but the memory and legacy of them live on. That will bring comfort in the years to come.
Love, Michele
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Gerry Malin I was truly saddened to learn of Tom’s passing. I first got to know Tom during the 1988 Winter Olympics in Calgary and continued our friendship through our participation in the Calgary International Pin Club. I will be forever indebted to Tom for providing me the opportunity to photocopy his binder of curling pins that he had meticulously described in such detail long before the advent of online scanning. My sincere condolences to Tom’s family and hopefully all your fondest memories will help you while you grieve and begin the healing process.
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Natalie Muyres (Kerekes) Kristy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your dad always greeted all of us kids with a big smile and hello no matter what we were up to! His big smile lives on in you. My condolences to you and your family.
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Garry Vause Condolences Judy to you and family. Tom was truly one of the good guys. Enjoyed golfing with Tom for many years as a “Hacker”
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Al Schreiner Judy and family
We are saddened to hear of Tom’s recent passing. Another one of the good old U of S guys gone. Our deepest sympathies are with you.
Al & Gisele Schreiner
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Ian Schmidt Dear Judy. I am so sad to hear about Tom’s passing. He was a wonderful guy who was a lot of fun on the golf course. I will always remember you and him. Fun at the charity classic and the joy of the hackers bus trips and the Iron man. So many wonderful people and Tom made this group and Willow Park a joy to be around.
Deep condolences from your friend Ian Schmidt
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Ellie Carey So very sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. You and myself are the only ones left of such a large group from Hudson Bay Oil and Gas.
Ellie Wichert Carey
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Allison Real Kristy- I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Sending you and your family prayers and love.
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Lynne Pitt-Kyba Dear Judy.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
The Grieving Journey is different for everyone. May you find peace.
Eternal memory.
Hugs Lynne Pitt-Kyba. (Nee Hoppins)
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John Yamniuk On behalf of the Calgary International Pin Club, our deepest condolences on Tom’s passing. Tom’s passion for pin collecting (founding member and first president of the club) will be missed.
(John – current pin club president)
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Sharon Niedermaier John and I are sorry to hear of Dick’s passing! Our prayers and thoughts are with you and the family!
Sharon and John Niedermaier
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Sandra Downey Dean and I are so sorry to hear of Mr Gorkoff’s passing! He always had such a presence – he will be missed by many!
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Kathleen Kristy I am so sorry for your loss.
I hope you can hold on to all the good memories to get you through the tough times.
Take good care
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Anne Piper Dear Judy and Family
I was so sorry to hear of Tom`s passing
My sincere sympathy.
Rest in peace Tom
My love and prayers,Judy
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Sharon and Scott Sinclair Dear Judy we are so sorry to hear of Tom’s Passing. He was a wonderful man in every sense. You and your family and his wealth of friends will miss him tremendously. That big smile and a twinkle in his eyes will always be a lovely memory of him. Our deepest condolences Scott & Sharon
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Pamela Fofonoff Kristy, I was sorry to see that you’ve lost your Dad. May precious memories help to ease your sorrow. (Pam from Dr. Hardin’s office).
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Jenni Butler My sincere condolences for your family. I was quite young when Tom and Judy were hanging out with my parents but I remember his fun energy and his big beautiful smile. A good man!
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Leslie Lancaster Dearest Judy, we are so sad to hear of Tom’s passing. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I think Tom has gone to join mum and dad in the great golf course in the sky where you shoot a eagle on every hole. ❤️
Leslie, John, Kyle and Meghan
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F. Dale Butler Tom was a friend, neighbor, golf buddy and a good person.
I will miss you my friend. Rest in peace.
Judy, we were so sorry to read of Tom’s recent passing. We remember lots of good times when we were neighbours in Lake Bonavista. Our sincere condolences to you, Kristy and Scott.
Brian & Betty Fleming