Malcolm Victor Connors passed at the age of 83, on July 14, due to heart failure. Over the past couple of years he struggled with a variety of health-related issues including dementia and as per his personality, he fought it every step of the way. It was heartbreaking to watch our family leader, mentor, defender and provider deteriorate over time. Malcolm was predeceased by his parents Charles and Mary, his brothers George, Chick, Bill and in 2019 the rock in his life, wife Lizzie. He is survived by their children Scott (Linda), Tammy, Shawn, Melinda (Guy) and Kathleen, grandchildren Brent, Alicia, Chris, Brett, Michael, Jasmine, Abigail, Lily May and Nathaniel.
Malcolm grew up in Vic West and was extremely proud to have come from that part of the city. He played prominent roles on Soccer and Softball Championship Teams. School was not his thing, so at the age of 16 his mother took him to the VMD Shipyard and turned him over to those who would take him from being a teenager, to a man. Dad said that during his early years at the shipyard, some men gave him a hard time because of his age, while others stood on guard for him and trained him during his tenure as an Apprentice.  In 1957 he obtained his apprenticeship documents as a Shipwright. Dad remained at the Shipyard for 13 years. In 1967 he decided to venture out on his own and opened Island Carpet Service which he operated until his retirement.
As a Dad he was tough but fair. We children did not always see eye to eye with him, there were battles, but we loved and respected him. Dad was our fiercest defender and greatest promoter. He was a hard worker, a skilled tradesman. Dad was a loyal husband to Lizzie. He built us a beautiful home in the Blenkinsop Valley where we grew up. He coached our sports teams and was a hands-on Dad raising us, protecting us, and leading us. One vivid memory of Dad is him coming home on payday, with new hockey sticks for us, while his works shoes were full of holes. His priorities were clear as day, he came second.
We always had pets growing up, but as we went out on our own, Dad and Mom used their spare time to take in/rescue dogs, cats and birds. Unwanted pets were never turned away at their door. Dad and Mom nurtured and cared for injured wildlife in the Valley. Deer, herons, birds, racoons no matter, and if he found them deceased, he would bundle them up in blankets and bury them with love and respect. Yes, he was the Malcolm Connors who would place obits in the Times Colonist for his dogs, Candy, Maude, Pal, Dave and Starr. Some folks thought it was strange while others embraced it. Dad was true to himself. He loved, and most importantly respected all animals.
His entire life he was an accomplished bodybuilder. Dad built a home a gym that would rival most. He was all about nutrition and strength, was well-read on nutrition. Late into his seventies, he would pump iron and right to the end, took an extensive array of supplements.
Over the course of a few months in late 2018 and early 2019, he lost Starr his white Belgium Shepherd, and then his wife Lizzie shortly thereafter. Dad was heartbroken, searching for answers, none of which ever came. His health deteriorated, but his fight and spirit never did. Dad spent the last few months in Sunset Lodge in his old stomping grounds Vic West. Covid 19 resulted in no visitors until July 14, when his eldest son Scott got to visit him. They spoke of days gone past, his brothers and mother, family gatherings around the kitchen table at 510 Catherine Street, family summer holidays at Qualicum Beach, their boat STAGGO II, fishing, water skiing, hockey and baseball and Lizzie. Six hours later he was gone.  Was he waiting for one last goodbye, we would like to think so.  Dad lived life his way, he was the boss and we loved him for it.

The family is grateful for the care he received at Sunset Lodge and prior to that at VGH 6th floor. We are thankful to all those who crossed Dads path in his lifetime. Business people, local merchants, friends, hockey and baseball parents and players, neighbours and family members, your patience, love, friendship and support did not go unnoticed.   Lizzie and the animals are all waiting for Malcolm to finally cross Rainbow Bridge….  As per Malcolm’s request, there will be no service.  Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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  • Neil Duazo

    My condolences to you all. I met Mal at the health food store that I worked at, and he visited every week. As a young man, he was tough on me so that I can excel and watch me grow as a man, husband and father. A few years later, he invited me to take pictures of his wedding to Liz, and it was a great memory.

    I’m sad we didn’t get a chance to see each other that last few years, and I’m deeply saddened that Liz passed without me knowing.

    I wish the best for the whole family. He spoke fondly of you all.

    Neil Duazo

  • Kaylin Bradt

    Where to even start with the stories! Uncle Mal and Lizzie were two of the strongest people I knew. They were family. Mal and Liz shaped the first 12 years of my life, that daycare was my home away from home. The memories of watching Mal through the day care window as he worked out to the “ooga horn” that he had in his truck and could hear from miles down the road – how he used to embarrass Liz and all us kids sounding it in public. I contribute my love for animals to Mal; for teaching me how animals should be treated and that would be eating better than humans for the most part! Maud, Candy, pal, and star will all be so happy to see you at the rainbow bridge. Thank you for all the wonderful memories and moments that I will cherish forever. Until we meet again <3

  • Danielle Pletch

    Dear Connors Family,
    I am so sorry to hear of the passings of both Uncle Mal and Lizzie. They had our two eldest children, George and Charlie, in daycare from 2011-2014. We visited frequently until we moved to Ontario in 2015. They were so wonderful to our children and to us. We had no family in Victoria, so we celebrated our children’s birthdays and milestones with your parents. They helped us through all kinds of family emergencies from our children to my husband having to be hospitalized. They were like grandparents to our children and we speak of them so often. Their picture is on our fridge. We’re so sorry for your loss, and I just wanted you to know how much they meant to us and to our children.

  • Bob Carey

    Dear Scott , Shawn and the Connors Family, I was lucky enough to meet your Dad when I was a Saanich Brave, I will never forget how much your Dad cared about us players and made us feel like part of something big. Later, after hockey I would see Mal in his work truck ( always shiny clean) and would yell to him ( Braves Baby) that big grin would beam out as he realized who was making a fuss , your Dad was a special man and we all will miss his kindness.

  • Anne Mayhew

    Thank you for a wonderful obituary – it took me into many parts of Mal and Lizzie’s life that I didn’t know. A rewarding life full of generosities to others. I feel sure that Mal was just waiting to see family again before he let go, on July 14.

    I met Mal through his Island Carpet Service. Scott, I’m sure we met over the old Emily Carr Apartments at 200 Douglas. That led to our dogs of course, and you might recall Maude and Candy playing star roles in my border collie book, “Digger Comes to the Half-Acre”. Their photos are in the book, and on his kitchen wall. Liz and I had such fun helping him with his extraordinary album, “Keeping Watch”, 2007, dedicated to St. Margaret’s School.
    With affection to all the family –
    Anne.

  • Ian Lang

    Scott, Shawn and family,
    Sorry to hear of Mal’s passing, he was a caring and on point kind of guy for sure.
    The time and support he gave to us as players with the Braves organization will always be in my memories.
    I recall a tournament at the North Shore in Vancouver when I took a slapshot to the head and the last thing I remember lying on the ice was your Dad holding a towel to my head telling me that things were going to be ok and to hang in there champ. When I woke in the hospital who was there to reassure me that everything was going to be ok, It was Mal.
    He really cared for our well being as kids and I will never forget his kindness.
    My condolences to your family.

  • Wayne Banfield

    I am very sorry to hear of Mal’s passing. Mal lived close to my family’s home back in the 50’s in Vic West and went to school with my older brothers Keith,Jack and Vern. I will always remember Mal and his two Great Danes, Pal and Zimba coming by our house when he would take them for a walk. My sincere sympathy to all of the family.

  • Rick Anthony

    Scott, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your Dad. Thinking of you at the difficult time. Rick Anthony

  • Alina Fisher and family

    Our deepest condolences on Mal’s passing. “Uncle Mal” and Lizzie were the stars in the night sky to my daughters, not merely where they went for daycare, but truly a part of our family. For years after my girls went off to school, I cherished every coffee chat with Lizzie (that always included Mal), where we’d talk about the happenings in our lives, the news, our pets, and how to live a truly joyous life. Uncle Mal you touched all of our lives in the most uplifting way. Always in our hearts, and never forgotten.

  • Eleanor A Eastick

    My deepest sympathies to the Connors Family.I was drawn to contact Mal years ago when I read a touching obituary to his dog in the T-C. I wrote to him and then went to visit him and Lizzie in their friendly welcoming home.How I enjoyed my occasional visits with such sincere and honest down-to-earth people. I felt Mal’s pain and loss when Lizzie died last year, but I know she and Mal and all their beloved pets will be together again over the Rainbow Bridge. May God love and bless the Connors Family. I am grateful for having known them.

  • Brian Duncan

    I started my Shipwright apprenticeship at VMD in July of 1965. Mal was my first charge hand. A little pushy but I grew to like the guy. I only worked with him a couple of years then VMD shut down. I went to Philbrooks and he started Island Carpets. I always was and still am proud to be shipwright. We bumped into each other over the years on job sites and in passing. I was one of those who admired his write ups in the paper for his dogs who passed. I too share the love of animals and believe in the Rainbow Bridge. Maybe I’ll see him there when I get reunited with my gang. I’m sorry for your loss. He was a good man.

  • Cheryl Hyman

    What a beautiful well written tribute. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. I will always remember your dad from Pearkes Arena as do so many who attended Saanich Brave games back in the day. Scott what a gift to have spent those last few hours reminiscing with your dad. Keep those memories close. Hugs to you and all your family from Donnie, Cheryl, Callie, Jenna, CJ, Cora and Casen.
    Love Crabby

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