With the heaviest of hearts, we announce the passing of our parents, Marilynne Joyce Helm (Forster) and Lyndon Ray Helm. Marilynne passed away peacefully on March 30th, 2020, and Lyndon passed away peacefully on January 31st, 2022.

Lyndon was predeceased by parents Albert and Violet Helm, his older sister Sharon and younger brother James (Jim). Marilynne was predeceased by parents George “Reg” and Hazel Forster, and older sisters Vivian and Dorothy. They are survived by their three sons: Aaron, Adam, Michael, grandchild Marissa, as well as the family dog Jake. Lyndon is also survived by his baby sister Bonnie (Victoria BC) and Marilynne by her older brother Ken (Kaysville Utah).

Lyndon was born in Rosetown Saskatchewan, April 13th, 1942 while Marilynne was born in Sexsmith Alberta, January 29th, 1943. Both of their early years were in Alberta, with Lyndon in and around Edmonton while Marilynne grew up in Calgary. Lyndon had initially been offered a placement at the Banff School of Fine Art, which he declined, while Marilynne intended to study Psychology at post-secondary. In the end, both of them attended Brigham Young University in Provo Utah where they first met and began dating. They returned to Calgary where they worked and were married on November 2nd, 1965. Shortly thereafter Lyndon, employed by Baroid Drilling as a mud man, required they transfer north to Fort St. John. The harsh winter urged them to move south to raise a family, where they bought their forever home on Mt. Tolmie in late 1971, living there until 2019. With Marilynne’s unwavering support, Lyndon’s entrepreneurial spirit began in Victoria purchasing and running Saanich Rentals, moving into the food and beverage industry, developing and creating Maude Hunters and Christie’s Carriage House Pubs, two of the oldest neighborhood pubs in Victoria, retiring from the industry in late 2001. Lyndon also enjoyed a lengthy and successful real estate career in Victoria for over 34 years, working for a variety of real estate firms. Lyndon and Marilynne were avid supporters of sports, from Lyndon coaching baseball, soccer, and swimming earlier in life, to looking forward to the regular season and playoffs in hockey, football, and soccer. Over their lives, Lyndon and Marilynne enjoyed extensive travel around the world, such as numerous family trips to Hawaii, and enjoyed retirement at their house in Palm Springs California, countless cruises with close friends, as well as dinner parties and various social events, including card nights with neighbors; but, their greatest joy was always spending time with their family, and especially their three sons.

The family would like to extend gratitude and thanks to live-in care workers Charilyn and Emi, as well as the staff at Glenwarren Lodge for all that they have done in caring for our parents over the past years.

Sadly missed … and lovingly remembered.

Both Marilynne and Lyndon were laid to rest in private family interments; and, their sons look forward to hosting a celebration of life for family and friends this coming summer. Details to be announced at a later time.

In lieu of flowers the family encourages you to go hug your mom or dad, or both, and tell them you love them today; and, would ask that you support local family businesses.

Condolences may be offered to the family below.

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  • Alison Barbarie

    Aaron, Adam and Michael.

    I miss your mom and dad already. As one of their caregivers it was very easy to become more than a caregiver to them. They were by far and continue to be one of my favourite clients/friends. I will always remember them as we had many laughs and have numerous pictures for memories. By the way you boys should be very proud of yourselves as you were so caring and loving to your parents. Easy to see where you got it from.

    Hugs to you all and will be thinking of you. Alison Barbarie

  • Victoria Panlilio

    To Aaron, Adam and Michael,

    My sincere condolences to all of you. I just read the obituary. I am saddened to hear about this. Reminiscing of the day that I was your parents caregiver (even short period of time only) I miss Marilynne and Lyndon. May they rest in peace, may God comfort you all during this time of grief.

    Victoria P. from VIHA Community Health Worker

  • Ron Forbes

    My condolences to the entire Helm family. So many fantastic memories and life lessons came through Lyn and Marilynne. It was a privilege to know them both and and to be involved with Christies. A huge Loss.

  • Debbie Talbot

    To Adam, Michael and families……..So terribly sorry to read of the passing of both your mom and dad. We will always have fond memories of their kindness and friendship. They helped both Todd and Craig when they needed help by giving them jobs at Christie’s. We were glad to call them friends. They were well suited and your mom especially enjoyed our ladies night out , she was so cheerful. On behalf of the entire Talbot family we send our heartfelt wishes for comfort in your time of need.

  • Jim & Liz Gillies

    Aaron, Adam & Michael. Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mom & Dad.

    They were great friends. We have fond memories of our many bridge nights in Victoria, our ski weekends and our get-togethers in Palm Springs. We cannot forget the many evenings we enjoyed your Little League baseball games and also coaching with your father. They certainly be will missed.

    Jim & Liz Gillies

  • Cathy Ready

    Our thoughts are with the family at this time. Our memories of your parents are of happy times – watching baseball, basketball games, soccer and Christie’s Carriage House. It was obvious the joy your parents had in enjoying life and their family. May those memories sustain you. Dan and Cathy Ready

  • Jack and Donna Schaddeelee

    Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your Parents

    Jack and I had many wonderful and fun times with Lin and Marilyn many years ago back in the sixties and seveny’s. We’d have a little party and Marilyn had had enough and went home, BUT LIN WOULD SAY
    “ I’m either going home OR I’m going to talk all night “. This happened many times. He talked and we fell asleep.
    We ran into each other fairly often in Hawaii. Us at the Breakers and they at the Hawaiianna
    The last time we were together was in Costco. We sat and ate hotdogs and YAKKED not realizing for about 3 hours. It was wonderful to catch up.
    Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all
    Jack and Donna Schaddelee

  • Susan Hoyer

    So many good memories and laughs that reach back to the Windsor Park days. Your Mom and Dad were very special to me.
    We are saddened by your loss and sending hugs to you.
    Susie q and Dieter

  • ann wilmut

    Feeling such sadness for such a loss. Two fine people. Marilynne forever missed by her non-bridge, bridge friends whose smile and kindness lit up every gathering. We remember her always. Sending love to the “boys” and all the family. Ann, Mike, Morag and Keir Wilmut

  • Susan Nesbitt

    I had the privilege of working for Lyn Helm at Christie’s Carriage House pub when it first opened he was always courteous, kind and professional.
    Sincere condolences to the sons and family.
    Kind regards
    Susan Nesbitt

  • Barb and Darryl

    Two of our most favorite people in the world, who have given us so many wonderful memories to hold in our hearts forever. We are holding you close right now with love……Barb and Darryl

  • Lane, Don, Landon and Amanda

    Dear Aaron Adam and Michael:

    Two good people have gone onto another realm. Our long time wonderful neighbours of over 40 years will continue their goodness in another sphere.

    How proud they were of you boys and your accomplishments. We all have so many memories of our interaction with the Helm family. They have left you a wonderful legacy. Please know that we are still your neighbour and that we are sending much love, our thoughts and our prayers.

  • Ivan , Myrna and Kevin

    Condolences to Three special boys! Had a few visits with all of you and with lots of families at our family reunions. Sending hugs and prayers.

  • Susan Black

    Extending my deepest sympathies to you Aaron and your brothers for your loss.
    Have fun memories of meeting them on a cruise.

  • Tim Black

    Aaron, Adam and Michael our thoughts and prayers are with all three of you.

    Tim & Kathy

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