Gracious and resilient to the end, Kathryn “Kay” Porter passed away peacefully at the age of 98 at her Berwick-Royal Oak residence. Predeceased by her husband, Alex Porter, and her brother, Charlie Deen, Kay leaves many to mourn her passing but never to forget her keen intellect, marvelous wit, infectious laugh, and generous spirit.
With deepest affection, she will be sadly missed by her children, John (Jean Grant), Susan (Brian Corregan), and David Porter (Cynthia Boyd); her grandchildren, Shannon and Robbie Corregan and Seamus and Angus Boyd-Porter; her niece, Diana (Ray Pry), great nieces, Rachel and Kathryn, and great nephew, Chuck; and her close relation, Jock Munro.
A lover of literary women spanning several genres, Kay enjoyed re-reading the works of Jane Austen, Gene Stratton-Porter, Agatha Christie, and Barbara Pym. In truth, Kay was extremely well-read in multiple areas and well known for her lively conversation on just about every topic. Admirably, she was a Latin scholar, graduating from The College of Wooster (Ohio) in 1948 and where, she met Alex. A born educator, Kay taught Latin and was a librarian at St. Margaret’s School in Victoria for nearly two decades.
Kay’s many and varied academic interests led her to pursue a series of hobbies that fascinated her, specifically family history. Seriously devoted to tracing multiple branches of the family tree, Kay joined fellow genealogists on annual trips to Utah, long before records were available digitally. As a long-time member of the Victoria Genealogical Society, Kay often volunteered, sharing her expertise with others. She also was an obvious choice as guest speaker for various horticultural groups who were interested in understanding botanical Latin.
With her family, Kay cruised the Gulf Islands and Desolation Sound in several well-loved vessels. In multiple log books, Kay kept meticulous records of summer cruising experiences. Both she and her husband’s love of being on the water left a lasting impression on children and grandchildren alike, as many have followed mariner leanings in both their professional and personal lives.
Though Kay missed her long-time friends and neighbours of Cordova Bay, she soon made many friends at the Berwick-Royal Oak where she was an avid bridge and scrabble player and volunteer librarian. Before her passing, Kay recited the following Latin phrase as a farewell to all: Ave atque Vale. The family would welcome condolences sharing thoughts and memories of Kay Porter. A private celebration of life will take place at a future date.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Kevin McAleese
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Frances Dodsworth Mrs Porter was a wonderful teacher to my daughters, Frances and Tanya Cownden, at St. Margaret’s School.
Condolences to her family
Franne Dodswy
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Wish Downey David, Cynthia, Seamus, Angus and John,
We met Kay many years ago when she visited St. John’s, and have heard much about her over the years. By all accounts, she was a remarkable person, and you are very fortunate to have had her in your lives for so long. Cherish your memories of her – as long as you remember her, she will still be with you.
Thinking of you all, Wish and Linda in St. John’s
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Helen and Roger Our condolences to all Kay’s family and the many friends she made while sharing her extensive interests in so much life has to offer. We shall miss our times with Kay who was a very dear friend and neighbour over many years.
We shared happy times at our book club, exploring family history and playing bridge. Her well considered analysis and discussions of world current affairs continued to the end. Kay was a valuable contributing member of our retirement home “Pub Pals” group. Her knowledge of word derivations often led to puns and much laughter. Her love and expertise at Scrabble was admirable and when told of a couple who played in Latin she responded that they would probably need more letters – maybe ‘u’s and ‘m’s. Sail on Dear Friend
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Laura Boyd David, John , Seamus, Angus, Cynthia and the rest of Kay’s family, my sincere condolences on the loss of a very special lady. I have heard so many lovely stories about Kay and all of her accomplishments I just wish I could have met her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gary I always enjoyed engaging in conversation with Kay, particularly in my time at St Margarets. This was only possible as Kay had recommended me for the job to the facilities people in the first place. This was something I’ve been grateful for, over a very long time.
My condolences to everyone, but particularly David, Cynthia, Angus and Seamus.
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David Robbins Dave, John and family my condolences for your mothers passing. I only had the privilege to meet Kay once at John’s house while we were on one of our sailing adventures. She was as charming as you all had described her. Take care and the best to your lovely families.
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Stephen Lewis Any mother would be proud of praise for her son, in this case of David, which is an indirect compliment of her, whom I unfortunately never met. My condolences Dave!
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Marie Wadden Many of us in Newfoundland are grateful to Mrs. Porter for sharing with us her son David, his wife Cynthia, their sons Seamus & Angus whose volunteerism and love of the outdoors, set by her example, have enriched our lives. She will be missed by all who loved her. Our sincerest condolences. Marie Wadden & family, St. John’s.
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Iain Pennington “I must down to the seas again, to the vagrant gypsy life,
To the gull’s way and the whale’s way where the wind’s like a whetted knife;
And all I ask is a merry yarn from a laughing fellow-rover,
And quiet sleep and a sweet dream when the long trick’s over.”Sweet Dreams, Mrs. Porter.
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Colin and Kim Taylor Condolences to David, John, Angus and Seamus and the rest of your family. I did not get the privilege of meeting Kay but heard many great things. She has certainly left a legacy of laughter and love of life with Dave, John, Angus and Seamus. Keep smiling and laughing and keep her in your hearts.
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Chris and Leslie Dear Porter family – Farewell to Kay indeed. The obituary paints a lovely picture but we are so sorry for your loss. As she sails off please accept our condolences.
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Gail Pearcey Condolences to all on your loss of a cherished family member. While we never had the privilege of meeting Kay the wonderful, heartfelt summary of her personality, and her life’s highlights, no doubt created many fond memories for all whose paths crossed with Kay’s. Gail & Bruce, St John’s, NL
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William Lush Our condolences to David and family from Bill, Mariève, William and Juliette in St Johns, NL. A lovely tribute to a life well lived.
“David and family – Wish I had met her. Sad that she is gone; good that you had her for so long. Your trans-Canada visits were, I am sure, a highlight for both of you, plus Seamus and Angus, the bi-Coastal grandsons. Families grow up and spread out, but they hold fast too. Lots of good memories to cherish for all of ye.” Kevin & Janet