Born on January 22, 1970 in Victoria, BC, our dear Judy left us unexpectedly on March 4, 2022.
With tremendous sadness, yet with honour and deep love, Judy’s mother, Jean Wescott and countless treasured friends are left to reflect on the life of a brilliant, witty, kind and vibrant woman.
Judy was devastated when her Dad, Vic Wescott passed away before his time was up. As are we today, reflecting on a precious life lost too soon.
To know Judy, was to love Judy. A natural connector, she had a magical way of bringing people together, through her passion for work, sport and friendships of all kind.
We will all honour Judy in our own way. In lieu of flowers, Jean asks that you please consider giving to the Courtnall Society www.courtnallsociety.org or a charity that supports mental health wellness in your community.
Heaven gained one hell of an angel. Judy Wescott, you will always have a little gangster under your crown.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
-
Dan Peirce
-
Ngaire Roberts Dear Jean
It has many years since I last saw Judy but I have fond memories of her and I at our first jobs at Sealand way back when as well of course through your’s and Mum’s long friendship.
My very deepest condolences – it’s obvious from the many notes here, that she was very well loved..
Sincerely
Ngaire Skiffington Roberts
-
Corinne Reekie Oh Judy! Everyone who met you was touched by you and remembers you. If you were lucky, Judy found you interesting too and spent her time making you laugh! But then, she found so many of us ‘interesting’. I’m sorry our scheduled get together got postponed, but I know you had your reasons.
Jean, Ray and I devastated for your loss xx
Corinne and Ray Wardle
-
S Woon Dear Jean
My deepest condolences. I’m so sorry for your loss. I rememberJudy fondly as a classmate and neighbour. She will be missed.
-
Rick DeBoice I look across the street (Avebury Ave) at Judy’s house & remember the fun we had together. After she moved, keeping in touch, we were always so happy to see each other! Last time we saw one another, we talked about the next time we would do so again. Laughter & luv. We think of Jean first. So very sorry for your loss! You did such a fabulous job raising such a great kid! So many people miss her so dearly. Thank you for being a friend, Jude.
Rick & Janet
-
WRK Oh Judy… how much I will miss you. You are the celebrity most anybody that saw you knew you had to be. The ones that were lucky enough to have met you, felt the privilege that you made damn sure we were aware of, to behold that special person.
You’re tone, looking down of your nose at the world sense of humour, was taken the way you intended it and loved for it….as you would flick back that raven hair. You hate emojis, (but you loved emojis)
You were the hardest worker, the most knowledgeable practitioner, and the most helpful and caring friend…and that smile….you see I am struggling to say the best for you………
-
Diana Lam (nee Trevor) My deepest sympathies to Judy’s family and all who loved her. May your happy memories help to ease your pain.
-
Judy & Don Campbell Dear Jean, from one Momma to another, my heart cries and prays for you. If ever you need a shoulder or a gentle ear, please don’t hesitate to call me. I also know the sadness of losing a child. Judy has been a dear friend to my daughter Stacey Hannah for many years. We have spent some amazing fun filled times with Judy & our family & friends, river rafting down the Cowichan River or celebrating Christmas & BBQ’s at my home numerous times. Judy was always a ray of sunshine with an amazing heart. We were all so shocked to hear of her passing.
God bless your lovely daughter & God Bless you my friend. Her memories and smile will be carried in our hearts.
-
Deidre Smith As Racquet Club kids we swam and played (badminton, tennis and found our way to squash which opened the doors to travels and friends far and wide). Judy surprised me one day with a birthday present – giving it to me at little old Campus View. I was in grade 6 and she was in grade 4. This sparked a lifelong sister-hood as her home was my home-away-home and Jean forever my Victoria momma!!!! Judy….judy……judy….. Jude’s – you beautiful spirited soul lives on in all of us and I, personally feel your caring, witty and ever so sarcastic presence inside me. My love and care go to the many Judy touched and especially to my beloved Momma Jean. I have donated to the Courtnall Society so Judy’s tragic loss will hopefully make a positive difference in other lives, knowing this is exactly how Judy lived her life everyday – connecting and touching lives of others! Love and condolences, Deidre
-
Michelle Clough Jean, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your daughter was an amazing person. Judy and I became friends through work but our friendship grew beyond that and we became lifelong friends. Judy brought an energy to anything she did, she was always willing to participate, and she had a drive and an energy that made you want to participate too. Judy literally knew everyone. I’m proud to call her a friend, happy to have known her and I will miss her always. Judy is a light that will shine on all of us until we meet again.
-
Barbara Rainey Dear Jean, so saddened to read of your daughter’s passing. Memories will be a wonderful blessing to keep with you always.
Barb Rainey
-
Pat Bion Jean
I am so sad to hear of Judy’s passing. Judy was a wonderful person and was so bright in mind and spirit and she made people feel better whenever she was present. Judy and I had planned to go for a drink together when I returned from Palm Springs but instead I now must have that drink on my own, but I will be raising my glass to Judy to thank her and remember her for being a kind, generous and fun person and good friend.
Pat
-
Judi (Wright) Aitchison Hi Jean,
I am so sorry to hear of your daughter, Judy’s, passing. We haven’t stayed in touch since our banking days together but I can’t imagine losing a daughter no matter how old they are. Thinking about you during this time or sorrow.
-
Kim Graham Dear Jean, I cannot tell you how saddened and shocked I was when I heard this terrible news.
I cannot fathom the grief you are feeling, and can assure you that you are not alone. Judes
and I were quite the team at LTO back in the day, and you bet we had fun! Each time we ran
into one another, it was like no time had passed at all, just picked up where we left off.
My sincere condolences and very large hugs to you
-
Deanna Mathewson My heartfelt condolences to Jean for this tremendous loss. Judy & I were fast friends when we met, and I realized she knew about every person I’d ever met in Victoria. We spent so much time together & had SO MUCH fun & laughter. We supported one another through some rough times and I knew the fierce loyalty of her friendship. Judy, dear soul, I know life wasn’t always a party, but that house across the street will always have a disco ball, your fantastic purple chair, and a pumping soundtrack that leads to dancing on the coffee table. You’re gone far too soon, but you sure left you mark on so many while you were here. Now Peace x
-
Jo Little Jean,
I am so very sorry to learn of the death of your dear daughter, Judy. We have lost touch but I often think of you and remember the close bond that you had with Judy.
-
Martin S My deepest condolences. It was a shock to see Judy’s name in today’s newspaper in such a manner. I still have fond memories of her from long ago, in the Campus View era.
-
Alan Peterson I was shocked and saddened to hear of Judys’ passing, she was one of those people who had a presence in everyones life she touched. Judy came to work for me covering a maternity leave for my regular assistant; and her abilities, intelligence and excellent work ethic were immediately apparent, along with her unique sense of humour. She had an amazing memory for detail and once she had met a client, she never forgot who thy were, and was always attentive and kind in dealing with them. We worked well together, and when my regular assistant returned to work, we were delighted that she agreed to stay on at McBOP on a permanent basis, taking charge of our corporate department. Others have commented on her personality, her infectious enjoyment of life, her love of people, and her loyalty to her friends and colleagues. May you Rest In Peace, my friend, I know you will be deeply missed.
-
Kelly Mann Mrs Westcott. My sympathies on Judy’s passing. She was an absolute delight and although we saw each other infrequently, she was always there with a smile and some good banter. I will miss that
-
Diane Hazell One would travel far to meet a more caring and thoughtful person than Judy. We shared a “Norfolk” connection through our daughter and she was always keen to share her memories of those years. Judy exuded such vivacity and wonderful sense of humour that laughter would permeate every conversation leaving all feeling the better for it. Her personality was unique, her smile infectious and her heart overwhelming full of compassion for those she held dear. Sincerest sympathies to Judy’s family and
many friends………….Diane and Bill Hazell
-
Gillian Wills I had the pleasure of working with Judy for a number of years and I enjoyed her sense of humour and her ability to make friends. I wish to express my deepest condolences to her family and friends. She is certainly missed.
-
Lori kaskiw I am so grateful to have had Judy as my stepsister. Over the past few years we were able to connect and strengthen our bond as sisters and as friends.
The world lost a fun, loyal and loving person. My heart breaks for Jean because I know how much Jude loved her mother.
I know her dad is thrilled to have her with him now and that brings me so much joy.
I am going to miss Judy so much.
-
John Andrews Having met you Judy during our travels almost twenty years ago, you became a staple part of every trip. Whether we intended to come to BC or not, we were always drawn to you. A pre-requisite stop, incorporated just to have a funny night in Vic.
You’re clever, funny, warm and welcoming and I’m honoured to say you’ve been my friend – as well as an avid follower of FunkySX on the airwaves and loyal supporter of my ‘other’ career as Lars.
Sleep well, my smiley friend. Will be raising a glass in your honour, for sure.
With lots of love, your friend, John x
-
Jody Banister Jean, my heart breaks for you. Losing your beloved husband Vic, and now Judy. I can’t imagine your heartache. I am so sorry for your loss.
Judy and I went to Norfolk House together and were instantly bosom buddies, grades 8-10. Where there was Jody, there was Judy and vice-versa. I loved that we loved the wackiness and silliness in one another. I laugh looking back at the memories we shared.
I moved away from Victoria long ago, but she never left my heart.
I made a donation to the Courtnall Foundation in her honour.
My deepest condolences.
Jody Banister
-
Sue Murfock We worked with Judy, along time ago, always loved her passion. We were so sorry to hear the news. Judy touched so many lives in such a positive way. She will be missed. Our deepest condolences. The Murdock family
-
Lorraine White I’ve known Judy since I started working at McBOP in 2003. She immediately made me feel welcome and part of the team. Judy had a heart of gold and was always willing to help anyone in need. She was a leader and a connector, full of sass and always the life of the party. She was a loyal friend and had so many who loved her. She was a force to be reckoned with and will be dearly missed by all who knew her, especially her mom Jean. It is so sad and tragic to lose such a vibrant soul far too soon. My deepest condolences to Jean, Judy’s family and her many friends.
-
James Redfern Jude , you will be missed my friend! My deepest condolences to her family and all her friends! You are with your dad and God now in Heaven ! We will see you one day soon my friend !
-
Dustin Schwam Judy reached hearts far and wide and was a leader among her peers….she will be sadly missed
-
Andy Time has passed since the loss of my very good friend. It still seems not real. I expect her to come into my restaurant and tell my staff that her bill will be on my tab. Judy was never unhappy in front of anyone and she took care of everyone before herself. There was never enough time for all the people she had to see or help out. She was so supportive through over 20yrs of my nonsense. She would make me look like I was someone famous when she would introduce me to someone for the first time. I can go on and on but it just saddens me more that this is the real reason I am writing this. If the Pittsburgh Steelers ever win the Super Bowl, I will be pissed of course but very happy for the briefest of moments for Judy. When a player on the Steelers point in the sky, he will be pointing to her.
-
Natasha Benn You will be missed by so many Judy. Sending my heartfelt and sincere condolences to her mom, Jean and everyone else that knew her. She was a powerhouse, full of positive energy, loving in every way, social, and yes, a connector. Anytime we were together, there was never a time that she didn’t run into someone that she knew. We became friends when we worked at McBop for many long years together, and stayed in touch over the years after I left the firm. Jude, you were an original, you had a sparkle about you, a trusted friend (thankful for that), and you had a laugh that will not be forgotten. May you rest in peace. Sending hugs your way. xo
-
Jen Fraser I worked with Judy for 20 years and was very saddened to hear of her passing. Judy was a crazy loyal friend and co-worker. She was an amazing team player and always had my back. I have so many great memories of many amazing times at McBOP with Judy and I will cherish those memories from many Xmas parties, golf tournaments and even an afternoon on O”Connor’s yacht in the inner harbour so many years ago! My condolences to all of her friends (she had a lot of them) and especially, her mom, Jean.
-
Krishna Baichwal I was very saddened to hear of this and know she will be missed. I am sorry for your loss and deep condolences you the family that I have known for many years.
-
Alan Zaalberg Judy was a great friend of mine I loved her so. She was definitely loved by so many of her friends and family. I will miss her dearly. Rest in peace my friend. #477
-
Tina Carleton I had the pleasure of working with Judy many hears ago. She was always a shining star with a smile for everyone she met. My heartfelt condolences to her family, friends and loved ones.
-
Lance Morgan I knew Judy briefly but in that time she touched me as a genuine sweet soul.
My deepest condolences to the family.
Simple and to the point she was. Always connecting me to her friends for work and spreading the friendships. I’ve kept those friends because of her. Great people surrounded this one. Make sure she’s surrounded by them up above.
Lots of hugs to you Jean