The Man, The Myth, The Legend, Victoria’s Biggest Sports Fan, My Town, My Team, Buddy Ryan, Donny Brooks, Dobs, Dobbie, Don, Donald, Mr. Dobbie, Papa, Dad, and Pops are some of the names you would hear this amazing man be addressed as. He was many things to many people.
Donald was born in Calgary Alberta as the only child to James and Lillian (Burrell) Dobbie, and raised in both Pincher Creek and Turner Valley, Alberta. He was known as the keeper of the family secrets because of the endless hours he spent researching and updating the genealogy records on both sides of his family. He took pride in remembering important dates (he would check his Palm Pilot daily to confirm and made sure to acknowledge them by calling everyone on their birthdays and anniversaries.
In 1951 he started being referred to as Dobbie by the men and women he served with in the Royal Canadian Airforce. He wasn’t the fighter pilot character that came to mind when you read this, but he was the financial guru that kept Air Commands Finances balanced to the penny and made sure that everyone was paid correctly and on time. His 30-year career began with him enrolling in Medicine Hat, AB as an Aircraftsman 2nd Class, serving in Aylmer, ONT, Edmonton, AB, Paris, France, Metz, France, Calgary, AB, El Arish, Egypt (UNEF), back to Calgary, AB, Dayton, Ohio, USA (where his 1st child Cheryl Jean was born), Ottawa, Ontario (where his 2nd child Brent James was born), Winnipeg, Manitoba and lastly in Victoria, BC at CFB Esquimalt where he retired from the Air Force as a Master Warrant Officer in 1981.
Not ready to retire completely, Don accepted a position with the Department of Regional Economic Expansion within the Federal Government in Victoria but was transferred to Vancouver very shortly after when the office in Victoria closed. This was very difficult for Don as family always came first and this meant that he was separated from his kids who remained on the island. He continued to be a very active and involved father travelling back to Victoria and entertaining his kids in Vancouver every chance he could.
Shortly after Don retired for good and following the birth of his first grandchild, Madison (“The first born of my first born”) he decided it was time to move back to Victoria.
Dobs was a natural athlete in his youth playing hockey, baseball, curling, volleyball, and golf all of which he continued playing while enlisted in the military. He played on championship teams overseas and, on home base so it was only natural when after retirement he morphed into “Victoria’s Biggest Sports Fan”.
If you were ever a regular spectator at any of the sports played at the University of Victoria (UVic) you were sure to recognize Mr. Dobbie. He could be found courtside in McKinnon Gym watching basketball, on the wooden stands cheering on the rugby team and up the bleachers at the stadium content in his UVic hoodie and jacket intently watching soccer (both the women and the men and especially when Cousin Erin was playing). In 2012, the Dobbie Family Athletic Award was created to give a financial award to an undergraduate or graduate student who competes on a University of Victoria Vikes varsity team.
He held seasons tickets for the Victoria Salsa, Victoria Salmon Kings and the Victoria Royals for many years. He knew the players stats, all pertinent information and always wished the players a good game before they hit the ice. He was such a beloved fan of the Salmon Kings that they invited him to be in a commercial for their “My Town, My Team” campaign which earned him that same nickname.
He had a favourite seat in every arena and that was no different for the Victoria Shamrocks lacrosse games. He attended every game with his daughter and liked to sit with the friends he had made through the years. He eventually became a season ticket holder to the Intermediate Shamrocks and then the Jr’s as his grandson Brayden played his way up through the ranks.
Papa supported his kids and grandkids in all their sports or activities. He supported Cher in theatre, all her fundraising and community events and even watched intently as she graduated from Charm School (she is still traumatized to this day). He was a regular at all of Brent’s hockey, baseball and basketball games and was well known by all the players, coaches, and parents. He has always been loved and highly regarded by both of his kids’ friends and was always prepared with a few good jokes when he would accompany Brent after a game or event and there were able to share special moments together with the Stanley and Mann Cups and the Super Bowl trophy.
Papa was a well-known spectator at all his grandchildren’s activities. He was present at everything from PACE productions, Christmas concerts, to sporting events and graduations. Madison, Brayden, Mackenzie, and Dawson knew that their Papa loved and supported everything they were involved in. He helped shuttle kids to practices and to and from school when a hand was needed and is known affectionally as Papa to all his grandkids’ friends.
The last few weeks have been very difficult for all of us. Dad always bounced back from every illness and hospital stay, but we knew somehow that this time was different, and we would soon be saying goodbye. Brayden travelled home from Kentucky to fulfill Dad’s wish of seeing him and meeting his girlfriend Rachael in person and together, Madison, Mackenzie, Dawson, and were able to spend some quality time with him and left no word unsaid.
At 12:30 am on March 27th he left this world the way he wanted to; with Cher curled up with him, and Brent beside him and each of them holding a hand.
Thank you to the staff at Alexander Mackie Lodge, the staff on 6N at VGH (especially HCA Jen who always went over and above for Dad), Tom and Leslie Redhead and Tom and Sue Glendinning for travelling to spend some time with Dad. Family was everything to him and he was so thrilled to have visited with you. Special mention to Al Tabor who was a best friend to Dad from the time they enlisted on the same day with one person separating them to the very last day of his life.
A memorial /family day barbecue will be held this summer but, in the meantime, raise a Coors Light or an A&W root beer in his honour. In lieu of flowers, if you so wish; please direct donations in Dad’s name to the Dobbie Family Athletic Award, University of Victoria Development Office, PO Box 1700, Stn CSC, Victoria, BC, V8W 2Y2 or the Children’s Health Foundation of Vancouver Island @ 345 Wale Road, Victoria, BC V9B6X2.
Condolences may offered to the family below.
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Virginia (Ginny) n Norm Reed
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Alan Rainey My Concolences to all those related and connected with Don. Don and I started communication through my mother “Jean Mae Rainey (Kelly: ex Pincher Ck) Our contacts were fairly random, but came at a time when they assisted me more than he will know. He had good wishes and kind words which helped create a bulwark against the times I was passing through. Proving that good people exist everywhere, they are just not the loudest. But they to make the biggest impression!
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Selene Higgins My condolences to Cheryl, Madison, Brayden and all of the family. I know how much your Dad and Papa meant to you all. He was so supportive of you in every way and such a wonderful man. May his memories bring you strength and love throughout now and the coming years.
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MR. Jody Rice Rest In Peace Don thank you for over 40 years of friendship you’ll never be forgotten. Rest In Peace
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Dennis & Pat Twomey Brent, Cheryl and families:
We are so sorry to hear of Donald’s passing.
We will miss his annual thoughtful phone calls
and family updates.
RIP cous.
Dennis & Pat (Glendinning) Twomey
Camrose
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Joni Richardson My heart breaks for you Cher. How lucky you were to have a dad like Don. A role model your kids can be proud to have known and loved. Someone who embodied what it means to support and love no matter what and always had a good joke! Sending you love and hugs and strength as you navigate this grief. Much love ❤️
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Dave McCall Our condolences to Brent and all Don’s family. Your Dad was a great gentleman. We remember him from Victoria Salsa Hockey Days. He had a sincere interest in all the players and was always so friendly. He will be greatly missed by so many. Dave McCall, Trevor and families.
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Denise McGuire Cheryl and Brent and there families; are deepest condolences your dad and papa was an amazing man I will miss seeing his smiling face, he will be greatly missed.
Denise & Anthony McGuire
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Leah Heil We as a family have so many wonderful memories of your dad. He was a main staple in our home growing up and we have many fond memories of him. His life was so full with the beautiful family he loved so much.
I know my dad was there with open arms and a curling broom waiting on his life long friend to join him.
Rest in Peace Don. Your legacy will live on.The Bruce Family
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Daniel Desnoyers My deepest condolences to the Dobbie Family. I was stationed in Winnipeg and Ottawa with Don. We’ve lost a good guy. Dan Desnoyers
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Hadyn Thomas Can’t believe that ‘Buddy Ryan’ won’t be on hand at any number of local, games, matches, fixtures ect.!!!!!
We tried hard to turn ‘Don’ into a local media star back in the days of ‘The Sports File’ on AM900 Your Information SuperStation back in the mid 1990’s when regular contributor Brent Dobie introduced our audience to the real ‘Buddy Ryan’.
The man was Victoria’s ‘Super Fan’ and obviously he was a super Dad and Grandfather …..So glad to have known Don as a friend!
I do know he was loved and much appreciated by the Dobie family!
Thinking of your during this period of mourning.
Hadyn
To Donald’s family who we unfortunately have never met we offer our deepest sympathy. We always enjoyed Dons company at the family Christmas dinners at Nana Tuckers. She was my grandmother n sister to Uncle Jim n Aunt Lillian Dons parents. Don always remembered our anniversary n my birthday. I would really like to have a way of getting in touch with your family. We r family also. RIP Don