April 25, 1920 – April 9, 2009
Elodie passed peacefully into the presence of the Lord with her family at her side, Thursday April 9 at Royal Jubilee Hospital in Victoria from complications of COPD. She was predeceased by her brothers “Teddy,” Anton (Doc), granddaughter Megan, and her devoted husband Charlie, of 58 years. Charlie passed away just one month prior on March 9.
Elodie, the eldest of the six children was born in Alvena, Saskatchewan to Henri and Lucie (Vandermoor). The Schellinck family owned 160 acres of grain farming land in Eldersley Saskatchewan on which the family worked and resided. Her younger siblings included Yvonne (Baker), Mary (Moreau), Henry and Anton (Doc). Elodie attended the one room school house along with her siblings. She enjoyed music and learned to play the piano at a young age. Her dad had special ordered and had shipped from New York City her own beautiful piano. That piano is still in the family. She sang in the church choir and was involved in the church’s Young People’s Group, where she made many friends of whom she was still in contact with.
Elodie stayed on the farm until the time was right to go to the big city of Regina for further education. Her dad especially, counselled her not to stay on the farm, as it was a difficult, hard life. She earned her first Degree in Arts and Sciences at the University of Saskatchewan in 1946. Elodie was a genial lass and a good student. She won the Junior Fencing Tournament in her first year, and was active in debating and swimming circles.
She continued on to the University of Toronto and obtained her degree in Social Work. In the meantime her parents sold the farm in 1946 and moved to Victoria. Elodie worked at the Empress Hotel to put herself through school during summer vacation. She met Charlie at the Empress when he and his brother Ted would show up on their Harley’s wanting to take their girls for a ride after work. She married Charlie after graduation in Victoria March 26, 1951.
Elodie started her Social Work career in the Saanich office at which time she met her supervisor and life time friend Jean Bain. These “best friends” continued to have lunch every Tuesday right up until a few weeks before Elodie’s passing.
Elodie had a gentle and quiet spirit, she was full of fun and a heart to help the orphaned. She and Charlie raised four children Bruce (Maureen), Mark (Laura), Dana (Jim) and Shawn (Carmen) and leaves behind 5 precious grandchildren, Erin, Sarah, Leigh, Kirk and Claire. Elodie’s passion for life was obvious. Charlie and Elodie travelled the world after their retirements. She loved the arts. From the symphony, to paintings to drama to pottery she would indulge in them as much as possible. She had a real sense of style and unequalled energy, she really lived her life. She spent time in a game of scrabble, rummy, cribbage or doing crosswords. She was a fantastic cook and made the best roast beef and Yorkshire puddin’ dinner ever. She could whip you in an arm wrestle in no time flat.
Mom was unconditional. She forgave easy, was always kind, uplifting and accepting. She was generous, and compassionate especially for the “under dog.” You always felt better having been with Elodie, she had an incredible spirit, heart and soul. Elodie lived her faith. She loved all God’s creation and would always tell us kids to “keep your eyes peeled” which meant don’t miss seeing anything beautiful when we were on one of the many road trips she took us on to the mountains or the ocean or even the grocery store.
She gave her time to others and had a courage and strength that was inspiring and catchy. Elodie was a dear friend to many, a mentor, and an accomplice in adventure. She was wife, mother, sister, gramma and aunt extraordinaire who will be incredibly missed. We will see her again though, as she always spoke of that hope. We are proud to have you as our mother, we love you Mommy.
The Robinson Family thanks Dr. Frank Egan for his incredible kind and compassionate care of our mom, the nursing staff on RP1 at the Royal Jubilee Hospital were amazing and for her room mates Pauline and Katie, God bless you for being guardian angels for our mom. We thank our many friends and family that fed, comforted and prayed for us during the last days of mom’s life.
Prayers will be offered on Friday, April 17, at 7:00 pm in MCCALL BROS. FUNERAL CHAPEL, Johnson & Vancouver Street.
The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in ST. PATRICK’S CHURCH, 2060 Haultain Street, at 12:10 noon, Saturday, April 18. Interment will follow at Royal Oak Burial Park and a Reception thereafter at Sequoia Gardens next door to the Burial Park. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made to The Hospice Society or Vancouver Children’s Hospital in honor of Elodie.
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Karen Robinson
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Suzanne Moreau Dear Dana, Shawn, Bruce and Mark and your wonderful families – Auntie Elodie had a huge positive impact on so many people, as she did on me. Her acceptance, enthusiasm, encouragement and support were a boost to my spirit. I treasured my time with her and will miss her so much. Today, I planted a pink “Miss Canada” lilac in my garden in her honour, a sweet, fragrant memento in the corner of my garden nearest hers and Uncle Charlie’s. For my gentle, brave, humorous, and fun loving “Born Free!” Uncle, I planted a tall Bloodgood maple, a symbol of devotion that Uncle Charlie embodied for his love, Auntie Elodie, and for his children and grandchildren. With love to you and your families, Suzanne Marie.
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Tami Rober Carmen, Shawn, Erin and Sarah,
Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. What a wonderful obituary, she sounds like an amazing person who lived life to the fullest. Take comfort in knowing she is at peace and with your Dad again.
Tami and Paul Rober
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Mona Hazeldine My sincere condolences on your loss. Although I never met Charlie or Elodie they both sounded like a truly wonderful people. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family.
I know that they have left this place better having raised you to be the fun loving, caring person that you are today.
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Yvonne (Vonnie) Kennedy (Moreau) Auntie Elodie and Uncle Charlie – both gone within a month. I always thought of them as one really, and so not surprising that they left almost together. Together forever. They were always there on Cowichan St. just a few blocks away from us Moreaus. Even though I have not lived in Victoria since 1969 they still lived just around the corner in my thoughts. Bruce, Mark, Dana and Shawn – you were truly blessed to have such parents. My heart goes out to you all. Take care of each other dear cousins and I would love a visit on the vineyard anytime.
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Hal MacNaughten To the Robinson and Moreau families. My condolences to all of you on your loss of Elodie.
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Yvette Brumwell Dear Carmen, Shawn, Erin and Sarah,
My sincere condolences on your loss. Although I never met her she sounds like a truly wonderful person. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family.
Sincerely,
Yvette
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Lynn Stavdal What a beautiful obituary. She truly was all of that and more. I feel lucky to have known her.
To my Dear Cousins and your families,
Your mother, my dear Aunt Elodie, was such a lovely lady. No matter what, she always had a smile on her face and such a calmness about her. I loved being in her presence. Mom (Fay) always loved spending time with Elodie and treasured their friendship.
You are all in my thoughts.
Love Karen