Elaine Hong, age 57, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 20th 2024. Predeceased by mother Sau Ping, father Wing Foo Kung and mother-in-law (Jean) Kwai Ying Hong. She is survived by husband Henry, daughter Kelsey, son Daryl, sisters Jean (Jamie), Sue (Tim), Carling (Aaron), nieces/nephews Marlyse, Trevor, Alex, Tamera, Kyle & Sophia. Uncle Tin Kuen (Susan) of New York, cousins K.Y. (Lisa), Fred (Louisa), & Frank (Carolyn). Half sister-in-law York Quin Hong, Stella (John), Norma (James), nieces Jennifer (Andrew), Selena (Peter), Miranda (Mike), Alexa (Juan) Carissa and many other loving relatives.
Born and raised in Victoria, Elaine lived and enjoyed life as best as she could despite her progressive Muscular Dystrophy diagnosis. Never wanting to be the center of attention, she was content being in the background. Elaine really enjoyed time spent with family, friends, and the many co-workers, colleagues, and acquaintances she met who became her personal friends while working 28 years for the BC Ministry of Finance, Revenue Division.
She wanted to continue working full-time but her deteriorating health condition over the years made it impossible. So, she reluctantly went on Long Term Disability spending the majority of her time at home. During her active years, she enjoyed cooking, baking, eating out, planning and hosting lunches, dinners, parties, etc., traveling on many family road trips and cruises, having movie nights out then later family movie nights at home, completing Sudoku puzzles, online iPad memory games, coffee and munching chips!
Elaine had an admirable quality of remembering and recognizing family/friend’s milestones. She was able to partake in many celebrations over the decades and really enjoyed all of the events. She had a very kind heart, ensuring everyone was doing well, and having a good time.
The Hong household has always been ‘Party Central’ over the years with many family and friends visiting all the time. Even more so when Elaine was not able to leave the house as easily. During her last year when daily care-aides came 4 times a day, the regular health care staff became her new temporary best friends. They loved talking to her and vice-versa about their personal lives and they did their best to make Elaine’s life at home more enjoyable.
Elaine was a truly wonderful person and we will all miss her dearly.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Elaine can be made to Muscular Dystrophy Canada, 500- 40 Eglinton Avenue, East Toronto, Ontario, M4P 3A2, Attn: Jennifer Williams, Online- www.muscle.ca/donate or via telephone (1-800-567-2873).
A Celebration of Life Memorial Service was held on Monday, September 9th, 2024, at 2:00 PM, in the Sequoia Centre at McCall Gardens, 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, British Columbia.
To view a recording of the Celebration of Life please click on the video below.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
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Brenda
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Carolyn Power I am so sorry to learn of Elaine’s passing. I worked with Elaine many years ago now, but I will never forget how kind and welcoming she was when I first started working in government. I will treasure my memories of our conversations about baking, cooking and her family that she spoke of so fondly. May you be comforted by your many memories with such an extraordinary person. My deepest condolences to Henry, Kelsey, Daryl and all your extended family.
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Bill and Laura Lum Dear Henry, Kelsey and Daryl,
We are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Elaine. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
We remember Elaine as a very kind and caring person, and her warmth was always her best trait.
She was truly a remarkable and courageous person.
Our thoughts are with you and your familyBill and Laura Lum
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Elizabeth Sousa I met Elaine many years ago when I started in government. She was so kind, always made time to give you a smile and a friendly hello. I am so sad to hear of her passing and send my deepest condolences to family and friends.
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Sherry and Edmond Louie Henry, our deepest condolences to you, Kelsey and Daryl. You’ve captured in words everything that was so special and wonderful about Elaine.
Heaven has a new angel and she will forever be watching over all of you. ❤️Sherry and Edmond
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Darlene Dear Henry and Family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.
My deep condolences,
Darlene
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Sandy Sorby Dear Henry, Daryl and Kelsey,
Our condolences on the passing of your wife and mother. It was a pleasure to have known Elaine. She was indeed one remarkable and strong woman who will be dearly missed by all . Much love Sandy and Sean Sorby
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Sally Chan Dear Henry, Kelsey, Daryl,
My most sincere condolences to you and your family for the passing of Elaine at such a young age. Thinking of you and wishing you all the very best for a beautiful service and celebration of life on Monday, September 9.
Big Hugs,
Sally
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Frances Peffers Dear Henry, Kelsey and Daryl, my sincere condolences on Elaine’s passing. Did not know the last visit I had with her would be our last time together. Her love of family and friends shined through her. She always found the good in life never dwelling on her issues. She had such a huge heart with everyone she came into contact with. I will have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, sincerely Frances
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Karen Pang Henry, Kelsey and Daryl,
I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and the rest of the family. Thinking of all of you.
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sam pang To Henry’s family and The Kung Girls,
We are so sad to hear your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Sam and Betty Pang.
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Josie Lee Dear Henry, Kelsey & Daryl,
So sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you and your family.Josie
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Kymbralee Dearest Family of Elaine,
Knowing your Elaine was lovely. The years we spent working together I enjoyed her positive, kind and determined spirit and especially her fierce commitment to her family. Every time she spoke of her family, and she did often, it was clear how much love she had for all of you. I feel thankful for the surprise impromptu visit we had this summer. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort. My heart is with all of you.
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Sue Murdock Elaine was such a wonderful force, made my life so much more enjoyable when I was at Refunds. Such a wonderful person. I will miss her.
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Urmila Dear Henry,
So sorry to hear about your loss. I was fortunate to visit her not too long ago and had tea with her but did not think this would be the last time. I loved and enjoyed many dinners with her.
Tribute is so true and cannot explain her better.
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Gordon and Caroline Wong Dear Henry,
Our sincere condolences to you and your family for your loss. We have fond memories of Elaine always being kind and having a smile on her face.
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Ginette Lim Henry, our heart goes out to you and your family during this most difficult time. Thank you for sharing the lovely tribute about Elaine. Clearly she will always be remembered and never forgotten.
Ginette and Toby Louie
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Gordon and Faye Chan We are soooo sorry to hear about Elaine passing. Our deepest condolences to you Henry, Kelsey and Daryl.
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Lily Chow Dear Henry and Family,
My deepest condolences to you during this difficult time. May your many memories together bring you peace and comfort.
Sincerely,
Lily
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Nancy and Michael Chan Our sincere condolences Henry, Kelsey and Daryl. Elaine will be in your hearts forever.
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Lan Condolences to you & the family Henry… thinking of you during this difficult time.
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Len Mannix Henri, so sorry for your loss of your wife and condolences to your family and friends.
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Nathan Robertson Elaine and my mother Margaret were colleagues and friends at the Ministry of Finance for many years, and our two families got to know each other over the years. Sending your family our deepest condolences.
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Linda Stockhorst Henry, my sincerest sympathy for you and your family. My prayers are with you
Linda
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Nathan Jacobson Absolutely beautifully and lovingly written about a fantastic person. Elaine truly did have a kind heart; she made me welcome when I joined Revenue Division at the Ministry of Finance 8 years ago or so, and we had many a laugh. She was the heart of our branch before she went on long-term disability. She was always so thoughtful and caring and will be greatly missed. She was so proud of her family, so proud of her kids. It was clear to me that she was a great and doting mom. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Lisa Mulholland Elaine was a very kind and friendly person she will be dearly missed. All the best to her family.
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Leanne Yates Dear Henry, Kelsey & Daryl
I was sooo sorry to hear of Elaine’s passing & so glad I was able to visit her recently though I did not know it would be the last time I would be in her company. Comments made in her tribute definitely on the mark, I met Elaine in the workplace & was one of the fortunate ones to call Elaine my friend for approx 30+ years and enjoyed many outings together after work hours.
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Tamara Digout Oh Henry, our deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time❤️ Dave and Tamara
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Chris Moir Beautiful and moving tribute to a woman who did so much to bring others together and to feel supported – well done.
Henry and family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Elaine was always so kind and welcoming to the Mah family. I remember her warmth and love. Thinking of you and your family.
Brenda Lee (Mah)