Surrounded by his loving family, Ted passed away on July 10, 2020. He will be sadly missed by his wife of 48 years, Kathy; children Andrew (Katharine), Elizabeth (Aron), Kaitlyn; grandchildren Jaden, Jacob, Lily, Harrison, Charlotte; sisters Deb, Pat (Dave) and families; mother in-law Amie Gamble.
He was predeceased by his father (Bert) Albert Edward Waring; mother Eleanor Waring (nee McPherson); granddaughter Grace Waring; father in-law Stan Gamble; brother in-law Al Byrne.
Born on September 7, 1951 and raised in Victoria, BC, 
Ted was a passionate and enthusiastic individual with a love for spending time with his family, fishing, photography, gardening, and camping in Vancouver Island’s wilderness. He was a captivating storyteller, writer, and author.
He graduated from the University of Victoria with a Bachelor of Education degree in 1977 and a Masters of Education degree in 1983. A teacher with the Sooke School District for 39 years,
he inspired, mentored, and taught several generations. He was heavily involved in coaching sports, teaching technology, producing musicals and plays, going on elaborate field trips, inspiring a passion for outdoor education and mentoring countless student teachers.
His family wish to thank all his specialists, doctors, and nurses.
In celebration of Ted’s life, please share your favourite memories, stories, and pictures.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
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Jonathan Carr Ted was influential to both my sister Mariah and I when we went to Lakewood elementary. He got us into photography and filmmaking. I won’t forget when he let me edit a video for the first time in iMovie on the new iMacs. Thanks for all you contributed to our community
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Peggy Leversedge May all these wonderful letters of condolence bring Kathy and her family great
comfort at this very sad time. They show Ted’s very lively and positive influence
in the lives of all of us who were lucky enough to know him!
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Debra Verdel My sincere condolences to the family of Ted Waring. I am so sad to hear of your loss. Ted was an amazing teacher and individual. He taught 3 of my children at Lakewood. He definitely was one of the favourite teachers!! I also had the pleasure of working with Ted and he always had a smile on his face. He will be missed.
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Ken Black Ted was a very special teacher I had the great privilege of working in his class room Going to Seattle on field trips with his class x2 What a great experience to work with you I will never forget You will be greatly missed
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Angela Newton Dear Kathy,
I am sorry to hear Ted has left the building with an exit stage right. He was a one and only.
I have happy memories of times in his company and in yours Kathy.
We had a silly activity at Glenlake School whereby I would scour second hand shops and buy “gifts” for the men on staff….gifts were presented at an after school get together. Gifts were intended to amuse. An one such”gift event”I was thrilled to have found a really frightful shirt from Hawaii. Ted opened the gift…..left the room to change….minutes later he returned skipping down the hall to show off his new look. He LOVED the shirt which was not the intention at all. I think he did wear it on a trip to Hawaii……
The man was skilled in so many things it is a bit mind boggling to reflect.
Ted took the pictures at my daughter Triana’s wedding and though the marriage did not work the pictures are a beautiful reminder of his skill behind the camera.I am assuming he will be somewhere producing an epic with a cast of thousands….they may not want to be in the play but they will go along with the enthusiastic Mr. Waring.
With love to you and the children and of course dear Amy.
Take care,
Angela
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Lynda Powell Dear Kathy, Andrew, Elizabeth, and Kaitlyn
I was so saddened to hear of Ted’s passing. He is certainly a One in a Million gentle-man!!!! Ted and I first met when I moved to Victoria, going into Grade 9 at Gordon Head Junior High. We attended some of the same classes together and I remember him as a fun-loving, kind, and caring individual. We both attended Mt. Douglas High School, and in our Grade 12 year, Ted was the Student Council Vice-President and I, Secretary. Later in life I would learn how ironic that would be.
As an Administrative Assistant in SD 62, I got to meet Andrew, Elizabeth and Kaitlyn when they attended Belmont Senior Secondary. Our son, Todd, and Elizabeth graduated from there the same year. Ted did mention that one day Elizabeth brought a school friend over and introduced Todd to him….”Hummmmm, so Todd, is your mother by any chance, Lynda Powell?” I love it…friendships going full circle. I enjoyed a fun-filled, working relationship with Ted while he was teaching at Lakewood Elementary and I was the Secretary. His caring manner, sense of humor, compassion and enthusiasm were evident in all he did. He was respected by students, parents, and colleagues alike. His smile, with that twinkle in his eye, and infectious laugh were his trademark. During my time at Lakewood my father, Charlie Glauser and Evie got married. Ted gifted them his skill as photographer for their wedding. It was delightful!!! In more recent years, I would take Evie grocery shopping following her hair appointment, and we would undoubtedly meet up with Kathy and her mother at Thrifty’s…where Kathy and I would catch up briefly on life as our two mothers would take off independently with their own buggies.
In Ted’s last year of teaching prior to retiring from Ecole John Stubbs Memorial School, he often hired Todd as his TOC. The mentoring that Ted gave Todd in the area of technology has been an invaluable tool for him in his own career.
Our lives crossed paths a lot over the years. When we would bump into one another along the Galloping Goose, or the grocery store, many minutes would pass as we would update each other on our lives….mostly it was about family…Ted was so very proud of his own…Kathy, his children, grandchildren and all of their four-legged fur buddies. He would delight in sharing special places to camp, and where the fishing was good.
This past fall, Ted and I enjoyed the friendships of our classmates at our 50th High School Reunion. More recently he had asked me to proofread his latest novel. He was so excited about this project. I am so happy I was able to do that with him. I know I am one of many who is grateful that I had the opportunity to have this larger than life man in my life…Ted was a wonderful buddy that I am honored to call friend.
Thank you Kathy, Andrew, Elizabeth and Kaitlyn for sharing your husband, father and grandfather with us. I hope the memories and stories you continue to share will help your tender hearts. My sincere condolences.
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Raman McArthur Dear Kathy and family,
I was fortunate to work alongside Ted at Glenlake Elementary. He was a leader the school could rely on. He had boundless energy and enthusiasm for children and they responded with respect and admiration. There was nothing that Ted did part way. In addition to his excellence in the classroom, he worked tirelessly on coaching students at a variety of sports, and on improving our understanding of technology. Lunch hour games ‘teachers versus students’ were among his favorite things. His legacy includes the mentoring of a number of student teachers. After I left Glenlake I was always pleased to see Ted in his other role ‘the salmon man’ on his visits to schools.
My deepest sympathies to the Waring family.
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Brian Fraser Dear Kathy,
My memories of working with Ted at Glen Lake are as wonderful as they are uncountable. He was a marvellous man and a prodigiously talented teacher who was never at a loss for both inspired ideas and the cheerfully powerful energy to implement them with a brilliant panache unique to him. The pain of his loss will return from now on every time I think of him and the only compensation will be the smile that will inevitably follow because of those peerless memories. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time of deep sadness.
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Carole Denton I am so sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. My deepest condolences to you Kathy and to your family. Such a loss, he will be missed.
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Shelley Danells-Soward Deepest Condolences to the family.
Mr. Waring was one of my favorite teachers ever. I was his student in Grade 5 & 6 at John Stubbs Elementary. He was also a wonderful band teacher. I fondly remember the band trips to different schools along with Mr. Spence. He was truly a great teacher.
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Laura Schaefer I’m so sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. I was lucky enough to have Ted as a mentor Teacher years ago, and was always happy to see him within the district and out in the community in the years that followed. He was the best of the best! He truly had a zest for Teaching and life. I learned so much from Ted (as I’m sure many did). I will remember Ted as a multi-talented, enthusiastic, joyful, and all around wonderful person. Sending my deepest sympathies to Ted’s family and loved ones.
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Cari Irvine Depew,NY My deepest condolences to you and your family. Me. Waring was my 7th grade teacher at Glen Lake elementary back in the late 80s.
Such fond memories of Mr. Waring.
Much love and prayers to you all. Xoxo
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Pat Kirk We were so sorry and shocked to hear of Ted’s passing. Ted and I had our hip surgery the same date last year and it was so nice to see him again after all those years. Because we had the same surgery date, we also had the same follow up dates. He was my daughter, Caren’s, photographer for her wedding 20 years ago. He was also our favourite teacher for my three children Michelle, Caren and Bill during his time at Glenlake. I spent a lot of time at the elementary school volunteering before I started work so I saw a lot of the staff.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Kathy and your whole family.
Pat, Michelle, Caren and Bill Kirk
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Krista Leakey Dear Kathy, Andrew, Elizabeth, & Kaitlyn,
I was so very heartbroken when I heard about Ted’s passing. I worked with him at Lakewood from 2001 until he moved to John Stubbs. What an amazing educator. His energy & enthusiasm were never ending as no task was too big or small for Ted. He always completed them with that contagious smile! It was so obvious that he loved his job. His positive impact was felt by both the students he taught and the staff he worked with. Not surprising, the one thing that he loved more than his job was all of you. He was so proud of his family. I can’t imagine the void you are all experiencing. Please know how much he will be missed. This world was a little brighter with Ted in it.
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Grace Rawlings Barry I AM SADDENED TO HERE THE PASSING OF TEDDY WARING. TEDDY WAS MY FIRST LOVE, I WAS 10 YEARS OLD, I BABYSAT TEDDY, HE WAS THE SWEETEST LITTLE BOY.Bert & Eleanor were neibours. Eleanor and I had our babies Oct 19 she had Patsy and I had my son Rick. I continue in Teddy’s life for years, thinking of his family and all his friends, I will always remember that beautiful little boy. GRACE DE PENCIER SHAWNIGAN LAKE.
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Bill Dawes A life taken too soon. He will be truly missed.
I first met Ted in the middle 90’s while involved with Juab de Fuca Lacrosse. He became the go-to person for the team and individual photographs. He would go out of his way to accommodate any player who missed their designated schedule.
I was later to enjoy his company as an off-ice official with the Victoria Grizzlies and Victoria Royals as well as the Victoria Shamrocks.
My condolences to all the family.
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Chole Doward Stacey Deepest condolences to the family of this wonderful man.
One of my most favourite teachers of all time. I was blessed to have him as my grade 5 teacher at John Stubbs Elementary school. He along with Mr Spence introduced many of us to the wonderful world of music and theatre. He made each day at school a wonderful learning experience. A true and great teacher!
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Coral Condolences to his family from me and mine <3 He was the best teacher in the world, grade 5-6 at Lakewood back around 2006. He will never be forgotten by all who he graced with his presence. I’m so lucky to have had him as a teacher, and still to this day I think about how much he influenced my growth.
Xoxo
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David Riederer How sad I am to hear of the loss of Mr. Waring. My Grade 6 class with him at Lakewood was truly the only year I look back on with only fond memories. So strange how just yesterday I was speaking about mentors with some of my brothers, and Mr. Waring came up immediately. He is one of the few men outside my family to have guided and encouraged me so meaningfully. I am sad I never got the opportunity to meet him again in my adult years, and thank him for the laughter, love and lessons. You are missed terribly. My heartfelt condolences and appreciation to his friends, colleagues and family. Thank you all for being part of a life that touched many more so deeply.
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Andre’ and Diane de Hoog It was with a heavy heart as I read of Ted’s passing. My condolences to the Waring family. I had the privilege of working with Ted at Saseenos Elementary where Ted was an exceptional teacher who always put the interests and welfare of his students first and foremost, He was simply a great “Guy” who will surely be missed!
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Laurie Tighe I just learned of Ted’s passing. I couldn’t be more shocked. Ted, you vibrant scallywag, talented in so many things, you have gone too soon. I am thinking of all of you Kathy and am so sorry for your loss.
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Jennifer Gibson My deepest sympathies and condolences to Ted’s family. I’m very sorry for your loss.
I had the pleasure of working with Ted at John Stubbs. He was a true leader in showing how it’s done with Jagzone and his epic middle school spirit assemblies. The students loved getting picked for the VIP table where they got pizza and pop and a front row seat to watching all the fun. Ted set the bar high at Stubbs and created a legacy of communication with Jagzone. He was an amazing educator, colleague, and human being.
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Mike Steel Mr Waring taught both me and my brother at Lakewood elementary. He was a brilliant man who pushed his students to achieve their potential, even at a young age. I will never forget him.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Luciana Boettger Incredibly saddened to hear this and am extending sincere condolences to the Waring family. I got to know Ted in the early years of my career as a teacher in SD62. I was a substitute teacher in his class a few times and could tell how much his students loved and respected him. His legacy will live on in the hearts of colleagues and students who had the privilege of knowing him. So sorry for your loss.
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Michelle Bevan I’m so sorry for your loss Ted was one of those people who lit up the room and had such a great laugh. He will be missed. Our paths crossed both in teaching and he was the photographer for our Wedding in August 1998. His wit and sense of humour got us through our wedding day photos!
Sending you healing vibes,
Michelle and Heath Bevan
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Jess Federici One of the first teachers to believe in a new TOC. He showed me that relationships are the heart of education. Ted made a difference. He made me a better teacher. He will be missed but has made a lasting impact on so many.
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Georgette Walker I worked with Ted at both Lakewood and John Stubbs and always admired his energy, enthusiasm and dedication. He will be missed. I am very sorry for your loss…our condolences at this difficult time.
Georgie and Rob
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Becky Young I had Mr. Waring as my grade 7 teacher at Glen Lake Elementary in 1994. He was an amazing teacher and person. I was fortunate enough to have him be my wedding photographer in 2008. I will never forget him. My thoughts are with his family. This truly is a great loss to all who knew him.
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Brenda Penston Heartfelt condolences to Kathy and family. So saddened to hear of Ted’s passing. He was such a cheerful, vibrant man. I taught with Ted for many years at Lakewood School and his tireless efforts for Staff, students and community were inspiring He was a leader in Technology with Mr. Potter and the school’s performances with Mr. Duchene and Mrs. Panton. He took all the pictures of sports teams and celebration of learning photos with the student, teacher and Principal for years. He photographed my son’s wedding as well as took our family pictures. He will be so missed. Big hugs to Kathy and family.
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Ron and Sherry Doak Our deepest condolences to the Waring family. Ted was an amazing teacher to our children both at Millstream Elementary and Lakewood Elementary. He loved his photography, was enthusiastic and an inspiration to those around him. He will be missed!
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Bonnie Bonfonti I worked with Ted at Lakewood, when it was a new school. His energy was admirable, and he was a person who devoted much time and energy to students in District 62. I particularly remember working on musicals with him, his appreciation of athletics, and outstanding work with the Salmon Enhancement Project.
My thoughts are with his family.
Bonnie Bonfonti
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Rosemary White Kathy & family,
I am very sorry to hear of Ted’s passing
Rosemary White (travel agent)
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Tanya Nelson It takes a special person to teach the “unteachable”, but that’s what he did. I was written off by the time I got to him in Lakewood. Late 90’s. He not only taught me about school, he was our coach. The girls volleyball and basketball teams took constant wins with him cheering us on and coaching us. I learned more from him in the 10 months while he was my teacher than I did in the rest of my school years… Combined. And after I left Lakewood I never found a teacher who could teach me. I wound up leaving school in grade 9, knowing that I would never find anyone like him who could handle my extreme sass and wild attitude. He was such a special person and I have carried him with me over the years. I lost contact with him through my worst years, but ran into him in the barber shop on Goldstream a few years ago. I got to tell him all the changes I made and the wonderful life I had created. I learned he had retired and was loving every minute, just like he always did. He was over the moon happy hearing about the positive life I had made for my daughter and I, and the we spent time laughing and talking about old times. Myself, and the countless other kids he taught are better people because of him. He is, undoubtedly, the very definition of teacher and I will carry him with me forever. I am sure his family knows how special he is, but I wanted to share that. Mr Waring was THE teacher. The one we will all remember. The one that taught me things I will take with me, and teach my own kiddos. I was deeply saddened to hear about his passing, and was looking forward to seeing his finished book. My condolences to his many family and friends. There are not many human beings as amazing as he was. He taught the “unteachable” and I will forever be thankful for him.
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Rob Fugle Ted, Mr Waring to me, left a big impression on my life he taught me in grades 6&7. He was always there to help me and just so caring. In those 2 years I learned more than I realized from him. Such a good memory is when the whole class took a field trip to Seattle. Just one my best memories and knowing that he did that and was that person for so many others kids makes him an amazing teacher and man. RIP Mr.Waring.
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Kris Defrane So sorry to hear about this. Mr Waring as we always thought of Ted was our daughters grade 7 teacher at Glen Lake and the bond he forged was so deep that he was the photographer at her wedding years later. Ted was always a joy to speak with and this is a true loss to those in his circle.
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Alicia Dougan Mr Waring as I knew him was an amazing man. He was my teacher in elementary. He brought us on some trips I never thought I would get to do. From basketball games to my first seattle Mariners game, an the seattle zoo. Over night sleepover at the aquarium. He took photos of the class whenever he could. In later years he did my older sisters wedding photos. I will always have fond memories. Condolences to the family
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Rae Gallimore Mr. Waring was my grade 5 and 6 teacher at Lakewood Elementary. Alongside classroom teaching, I have such amazing memories of him from working on the musicals (Oliver, Cinderella, The Lion King, The Little Mermaid), anything Mac related and the ‘news show’ filming projects. He had incredible enthusiasm for details in creative projects and always made you think and strive for your best work. My passion for performing is immensely rooted in my Lakewood memories and I thank Mr. Waring for being a positive role model during that time in my life. My deepest condolences and best wishes to the family.
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Val Samuel (Cormier) Condolences to the family. Mr. Waring was my favourite teacher. He developed my love for volleyball and to become a teacher myself. He made the classroom a safe place to learn and have fun, all at the same time. Just last week I was reminiscing and wondering how many students saw my knee X-ray up on the alphabet wall and what ever happened to it. I also remember him taking silly pictures of us and making it look like we were standing in another classmates hand. I’m sure he’s touched so many lives and will be remembered fondly by so many.
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Sandra Bowes Well Mr. Waring started out as my grade 6/7 teacher at John Stubbs. He and Mr.Mallett share the class. They took us on the most memorable trip around BC “ The Be Seeing BC Trip” I remember it was the first time we got to sleep on a ferry. Then we got to see so much of our great province with many laughs along the way. As an adult I was lucky enough to see Mr. Waring come in and out of the school with the salmon program. Then to come read some from his book that the class was reading. One day this young new student teacher came to our school Ms Bell. It didn’t take long to realize that she was Mr.Waring’s daughter Then I got to see much more of him and we shared memories of that long ago trip
Thank you, Waring family for sharing him with so many. May you remember him with the memories and photos he gave you all.
Peace and Love, Sandra Bowes (MacMillan)
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Amy Owens My sincere condolences to “mr waring’s” family. He encouraged me when I was “Cinderella” in the school play, he was a great track coach and he made learning fun. I will always remember his joyful smile!
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Bob Belcher Ted was a “doer”, an amazing array of talents. Many school communities benefited from his tireless efforts in coaching,officiating,drama productions, workshop presennations, among other endeavours. I never worked with Ted, but admired him from afar. Our best to family.
Bob and Sher Belcher
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David Mallett My sincere sympathy to the Ted Waring Family. I had the pleasure of teaching with Ted many years ago at John Stubbs! The Bee Seeing BC plaque on our book shelf brings back many memories of our “Great Adventure” travelling to Port Hardy and taking the ferry to Prince Rupert with excited grade 7’s. On to Kitimat where we had to disappoint waiting billets. Then through the majestic seven sisters and the sights and communities along Highway 16 to Prince George. South to Quesnel and a visit to Barkerville before heading home. Just an example of the excitement and amazing ideas Ted brought to teaching. He will be, and is remembered by many students, teaching colleagues and friends.
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Leigha Smawley-Lean I saw Ted a few years back at a Shamrocks ☘️ game, prior to that 35+ years ago Mr Waring was my teacher and friend at Glen lake elementary school. Ted was an amazing leader and mentor. You will be sadly missed.
Sending love and support to his family during this difficult time. Xo
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Shannon Jewitt I was shocked and saddened to read of Ted’s passing. Twenty five years ago I got his name to photograph my wedding and after meeting him at a consultation we immediately realized he was indeed one of my patients at the dental office where I was employed. His entire family were patients and we couldn’t believe what a small world it was. Through the years I would see him every 6 months and he also photographed our family twice as we grew to a family of 4. He was my friend and I always proudly stated to the girls at work that he was my photographer. I would also see him at Victoria Royals hockey games which I know he loved going to with his kids and grand children. My heart goes out to you Kathy and family. I hope that in time all your wonderful memories of him help ease the pain and loss. I will miss his upbeat energetic personality and am so grateful to have made that call many years ago.
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Anne-Marie Johnston To Kathy and family,
I had the pleasure of teaching with Ted at Glenlake Elementary. He was a superb teacher and his contributions to the school were many and varied (Swim Coach, Sports Day organizer, computer “guru” and photographer, to name just a few.) Years later when Kathy retired, she passed on “the” salmon tank to me and I was fortunate to have Ted as my trusty salmon expert; answering anxious questions and helping with the successful release at Goldstream.
I will remember Ted for his energy, enthusiasm for teaching and most of all his wonderfully infectious laugh!
Thinking of you all.
Anne-Marie Johnston
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Terry Rose Ted and I were best friends throughout our teen years. Ted was accepted into my family as if he was my brother and I believe I enjoyed the same status with his. We went from being kids to being adults together. Life was pretty magical for us kids in the Braefoot Valley, so many great memories of the times we shared. Rest easy my friend.
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Jan Peever sorry to hear about Ted. He taught both of our children and we enjoyed playing crib at the JuandeFuca Seniors Center when he first retired. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Gary and Jan Peever
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Ajmare Sundher Dear Kathy and family,
I had the privilege of working with Ted at Glen Lake Elementary and Ecole John Stubbs Memorial School. I always appreciated, admired and respected Ted’s work ethic and initiative. He was someone you could always count on and everything was always done with a smile.
It was a pleasure to be in Ted’s company as he had a special way of connecting with students, parents and staff. For staff that were new to the school, Ted would go out of his way to welcome them to their new family of colleagues.
Ted was an innovator as he adeptly used and embraced technology to engage and motivate students. At EJSMS, Ted was instrumental in setting up and running the student led broadcasting studio (Jag Zone).
Ted and I shared many good stories and we laughed together. Ted’s smile and good sense of humour will always be remembered.
Respectfully,
Ajmare and Catherine Sundher
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Tonya Purnell I remember Ted as he would come to my class every year to bring me a new batch of Salmon eggs for the Salmonoid program. Always taking time to share the excitement of seeing the eggs up close with the kids. Then seeing him at the hockey games over the years of the Salmon Kings. He was always so kind and took time to check in every time I would run into him out and about in the community. I never had the pleasure of teaching on the same staff as him but knew that he was passionate about his job and the kids.
Love and hugs Kathy.
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Cindy Wilson I’m sorry to hear of your loss, Ted was an amazing individual. I was lucky enough to have him teach me in grade 4 and 7 at Glenlake elementary school and then years later photograph my wedding. It made my day that he was there to do that and will always be a special memory.
Sending our thoughts and warmest wishes to you all.
Cindy (Johnson) and James Wilson
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Hugh Markides Dear Kathy: my sincerest condolences to you and your family. It was less than a year ago that Ted and I reunited at our Mt.Douglas High School 50th reunion. We were very good friends during those early times. He always was so full of life and energy. I remember his enthusiasm when he went for his interview for Wheel of Fortune. One could only wish him the very best, as his personality could only leave the audience in stitches. He will be sadly missed.
Hugh Markides
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Ann Coggan A life is like a song we write
In our own tone and key,
Each life we touch reflects a note
That forms the melody,
We choose the theme and chorus
Of the song to bear our name,
And each will have a special sound,
No two can be the same.
So when someone we love departs,
In memory we find
Their song plays on within the hearts
OFthose they leave behind.
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Grant Treloar I admired and highly respected Ted as an educator and a human being. He was passionate about everything! I remember well the early 2000s at Lakewood.
He was a leader in developing the integration of technology as a tool in the classroom for the school and the district and beyond. He was “the” track coach (eg: at Belmont to grab the best spot for the school at 6 AM!). School wide productions were his forte and he led by example, always willing to reach for excellence.
My sincerest condolences to the family.
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Jack & Barbara Gallop Sad news about a fine man. Ted taught our children in Grade 7 at Lakewood Elementary and they were undoubtedly a part of many students over the years who benefited from his excellence as both a teacher and as a coach. Ted continued to assist our family in 2011 when he photographed our oldest daughter’s wedding. May this wonderful person rest in peace.
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David Bennett Dear Kathy and Family:
We were saddened to read of Ted’s death in the Times Colonist.
I was fortunate to work with Ted early in my SD No. 62 career at John Stubbs Memorial. I was glad to get to know him as a colleague and a friend. Our encounters over the years to follow reflected his love of family, of learning, and of his profession.
May the wonderful memories you all have of your husband and father, comfort you all in the years to come.
David and Vicki Bennett
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MARIAN WEBB Dear Kathy and Family
I met Ted at a pool class where he was a long time participant. His presence and comments were always informative, uplifting, kind and humorous. He was one great guy! Thank you, Ted, for all that you gave to us at Crystal Pool. And thank you for the introduction to contemplative photography.
Adieu, Marian
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Bryan Potter We were so sorry to hear of Ted’s passing. I first met Ted when we both joined the Lakewood Elementary School staff at the newly built school, except that it wasn’t quite finished yet. We spent the first term sharing the facilities of Millstream Elementary until Lakewood was completed.
Ted was always a larger than life personality in the school, with infectious enthusiasm and humour. His work in the technology sector and with the school musicals was much appreciated by staff and students alike. I remember driving down to Portland, Oregon, with Ted to a technology conference. We took the opportunity to share our joint interest in photography by taking pictures on the way, and at the conference. We also shared an interest in getting the students to be creative with computers, and we gave a number of workshops together on using HyperStudio. He was a great colleague to work with, I will miss him!
With deepest sympathy from Bryan and Susan Potter.
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Luke Byrne Uncle Ted
It is rare that when you reflect on a person you loved that is gone that you can not think of ANY negative memory or time.Well I tried and I honestly can not with my Uncle:)
I will always cherish Christmas Eve at Uncle Ted and Aunt Kathys as well as the camping and fishing back in the day! For me too K5 Blazers will always hold a special place in my heart man you loved that old truck lolAs you told me at Dads service “Luke its a long and winding road it is going to be ok take solace in the fact that your Dad is up there now looking after Grace and Grandma and Grampa and even Grandma Mac God knows who else he has helped already cause that is what your dad did best is take care of people”
Well now he has you to go fishing with Uncle Ted!
Ill leave with something my dad said……..
That Teddy is a good man.
Thank you for everything Uncle Ted.
Our family has lost Two Fathers and Uncles In the recent months anyone reading this trust me you DO NOT understand how much you will miss somebody until they are gone.
Rest Well Uncle Ted Thank you for the memories.
I love and will truly miss you.May the water be eternally “Like Glass” and always have one on the line.
Luke Byrne.
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Erie Pentland Dear Kathy.
I am so sorry to hear about Ted, gone too early. When I worked at Lakewood Elementary as an occupational therapist I will always remember Ted as a great supporter of technology for students, especially for those kids who had difficulty putting their ideas on paper. To this day I don’t know how he did it but he managed to access technology when others couldn’t. As a therapist I would often recommend technology as a bypass strategy to help compensate for fine motor difficulties….Ted was always eager and enthusiastic to not only try, but to expand on my suggestions. He was one of the teachers that made my time at Lakewood so enjoyable. I will always remember him rushing up to me with the latest technology, inviting me into his class to watch it in action. He always made me feel so welcome.
I was also very lucky to have spent sometime with him outside work as well at some family gatherings. He was always so full of life and fun. His positive energy will be missed.
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Karen Goreas When I think of Ted, his bright smile and infectious chuckle come to mind. I had the privilege to be his colleague at John Stubbs for a few years. He was helpful, funny, and creative. I am very sorry for your loss. Please accept my sympathy.
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Delmer Clark Jeannine and Del and the boys
It is with sad hearts we heard of Ted’s passing! He was a great colleague and friend! We shared many adventures at Saseenos and had a lot of fun with the grade seven camping field trips to Fairy Lake and Botanical Beach at Port Renfrew, bears, cougars and all. Family camping trips to Buttle Lake were always a highlight of the summer, hiking and fishing and enjoying the campfires and friendly fishing competition, which he often won! The trip to Watertown Lakes, driving through a buffalo herd and visiting Head Smashed In Buffalo Jump was a real adventure, even if it was a little dusty! Our family really appreciated Ted (with Kathy’s help) taking the wedding photos of our four sons. We will always cherish the many memories! Our hearts are with you in your time of sorrow!
Love,
Jeannine, Del, boys and their families
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Kevin and Melannie Clark Kevin and Melannie Clark
We are so sad to hear of Ted’s passing.
When we were getting married we wanted to keep it small and a surprise for Del and Jeannine. Because Ted and Cathy were such close family friends we decided to be creative with how we booked Ted to be our photographer. We used Kevin’s middle name and he was away for the consultation. The minute Ted figured us out he reacted with joy and offered to gift the photos as a wedding gift. He insisted he required his assistant Cathy. They ended up being two of the seven people who attended. It’s one of our favourite memories.
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Grania Bridal My deepest sympathies to the family. I was so sad to hear this news. I worked with Ted at John Stubbs. He was an amazing educator and a very kind man. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Jennifer Galego Dear Kathy, thinking of you in your time of sorrow. Take care.
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Greg Jackson Our two daughters attended Lakewood back in the day. As such, there was no chance of not meeting Ted. He was always around, always easy to find, always involved in our children’s education and school related activities. That beaming, smiling man was so enthusiastic and inviting that participation in any of the Lakewood performing projects was as simple as falling off a log. The Waring/Duchene/Lakewood team put together remarkably complex productions that involved everyone from the school and beyond. They always amazed, delighted, and entertained the community. A very approachable genuine man full of life, valued and forever remembered by our children and by us, Ted will be missed. Too young to go.
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Kevin & Heather Klause Dear Kathy
I thought Ted was the coolest cousin, He was the guy who gave me my first ever Rock n Roll album. ‘‘Twas the best of the Guess Who. (I was only twelve). It’s my favourite album to this day. Ted gave it to me and of course I had to take it to Uncle Stan and Auntie Amies to play. I cranked that volume to the max,,,,guess who would turn it down to min when I wasn’t looking,,,,,Uncle Stan.
When visiting our family at Pigeon Lake, Ted was always a good sport, getting In the water and never complaining of the extreme water temperature. Always taking part in our waterski adventures.
Our deepest sympathy to you all.Love from: Kevin and Heather Klause
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sam pang To the Warings,
We are so sad to hear your lost. Please accept our sincere condolences.
The Pangs
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Erin Pugh There are so many things that I want to say about Uncle Ted, the first being that I loved and will miss him dearly.
I’m so grateful for the opportunity I had to FaceTime with him a couple of weeks ago. Even from his hospital bed, he was full of enthusiasm and excitement- to see me, to share his latest stories, to tell me how happy he was that his grandkids had been in my Kindergarten class.
Years ago, Uncle Ted LOVED that I wanted to be a teacher. He helped me through first year Math at UVic, proudly posed with me for my B.Ed. grad pictures, shared his novel study units with me when I got my first intermediate teaching position, and came out to the car to chat with me about school when I’d pick up Auntie Kathy in our days of carpooling to Sooke… The year that I taught Lily, he was so excited to visit the class and read a picture book aloud to them. When I was the school librarian, I invited him to do read-alouds of his Castle Boys book. He was thrilled when I displayed the poster on the library wall. During our last conversation, he happily filled me in on all the details of his latest book project, and I promised him I’d read it this summer.
Uncle Ted loved to teach, to write, to camp, to fish, to take photos, to listen to the Beatles. I have memories of him tied up in all of those things. I remember hanging out in his classroom at Glen Lake when I was a student teacher. I recall his family arriving to meet us at Lake Cowichan some summers, and the stories he’d tell about the HUGE fish that he’d caught. When I went to England for the first time, he gave me strict instructions to visit Abbey Road, get photos, and bring him back a souvenir (all of which I did, of course!) I was so grateful to him for taking all of our beautiful wedding photos (passing his fancy camera off to someone so he could pose with us in a family shot) and for being the MC at the reception. He really did love to give a speech!
Thank you, Uncle Ted, for always cheering me on, and being such a force in our big family. I will miss seeing your smile, and hearing you call me “kiddo.” I’ll remember you on Christmas Eves (oh the Pictionary parties and the sausage rolls beside the Christmas tree!) I’ll think of you when I’m at Goldstream Park during salmon spawning time, when I’m listening to live music at Butchart Gardens, and when I come across your book on the shelves in my office. I will miss you.
My family and I send love to Auntie Kathy, Andrew & Katharine, Elizabeth & Aron, Kaitlyn, and all of the kids. Our hearts are with you, and share your grief.
Much love,
Erin, Alan, Dylan and Sawyer xo
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Ken Klause Our sincerest condolences Kathy to you and your family. Ted was such an awesome guy! He was always upbeat and happy and outgoing! We really enjoyed our trips to Victoria as kids and Ted would always be there to play with us.
Deepest sympathy
Ken Alix Georgia Hudson Klause
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Jenifer Freemantle I’m so sad to hear about Teds passing. He was such a bright spirit. I will always hold fond memories of him in my heart.
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John Rizzuti Kathy and family. We are so sadden to hear of your loss. Ted was an amazing individual and teacher. With deepest sympathy John and Marilynne Rizzuti.
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Kim Bodman So sorry for your great loss! I remember Ted as being such a great teacher and always smiling. Early in my career I was to work in the same class with him and we planned for the student together. Full of inspiration and enthusiasm we felt comfortable getting lessons ready only to find out I would be bumped out of that position to another school. Even though our collaboration was fleeting I had come to know Ted better and we shared that connection in future years. Whenever our paths crossed, it was like an old friend stopped by. Sad to hear of his passing. Theres another angel watching over us! May your memories stay close to your heart as a reminder of all the fun that was captured!
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Christine &George McSorley Thinking of you and your family at this sad time.
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Phil Duchene First things first: I would have loved to have done this live; to share the nods and smiles and knowing head shakes with everyone; but the world has turned so I am reducing so many joyful experiences and relationships into a simple brief text. Ted and I worked together at Lakewood for a wonderful decade in a new school whose kindly, supportive staff gave the Elementary performance arts completely free rein far beyond traditional expectations. I came to Lakewood from Journey Middle School in Sooke via the Caribbean and originally the UK. It was a happy Canadian journey that saw me in a pretty nigh perfect serendipitous gig with the wonderfully staff of Lakewood Elementary; Sue, Karen, Brenda, Bob, Freda, Doreen, Tara, Elise – to be honest, I don’t know where this list ends, so huge apologies if your name is not here. You know (as did Ted) who you are. So many staff members and talented parents supported and showcased Ted’s on-stage visions. When I heard the sad news, I thought what memories stick for me of this terrific colleague whose students so respected and loved him for his imagination, caring, industry and commitment? It was actually quite easy. 1. I can still hear him laugh to any quirky, engaging idea that could work on stage. 2. He was the man to solve problems; better still the man you wanted on a committee for his cut to the chase analysis and 3. By far best of all, he was the guy to both lead and follow through huge, almost out of control theatrical projects. If you saw Lakewood shows such as ‘The Lion King’, ‘The Little Mermaid’, ‘Honk’, ‘Joseph’, the list goes on – you will appreciate the scale of Ted’s energy, talent and commitment. I remember after we had built a huge set with the best parent help, we sat in the gym auditorium and gazed at it all for a good wee while. I said, ‘You know what, Ted? It makes Ben-Hur look like an epic.’ And he cracked up in the nicest self-deprecatory fashion. Class act. He was a quality teacher, colleague and advocate for the Arts with younger students. We were so lucky to have him when and as long as we did. As Joni Mitchell sang, ‘Don’t it always seem to go that you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone.’ I’m very sorry to say; now we know.
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Brenda Stewart My deepest Sympathy to the Waring Family. Ted will be missed by many. He took my wedding pictures 47 years ago and my Sons pictures 6 years ago. I will look at these pictures and remember Ted and the fun we had. Rest easy Ted
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Rebecca Dictado Bulasa Our heartfelt condolences to the family of Ted Waring. We’re so sad and you will be missed.
I was a student of Mr Waring. He was a fine teacher. I credit my passion for travel to his adventurous field trips. He will be remembered fondly.