It is with great sadness we announce the passing of Delwynne David Windell, BA, MA, D.Litt et Phil, R. Psych, on July 16, 2022, in Victoria, BC, Canada. He finally claimed his freedom from this earth, after a courageous battle with cancer, and is now forever resting in the arms of the Lord. He was born on May 13, 1953, in Cape Town, South Africa.
He will be greatly missed by his loving partner of almost 22 years, Henry.
Delwynne was predeceased by his loving sister Raine in 2014, his brother Trevor in 2013, his mother Joyce in 1998 and his father James in 1986.
He leaves behind his nieces, nephews and cousins: Tracey Joy Kennedy (and Antoinette), Deane Kennedy, Jacques Windell, James Coetzee (and Yolanda SA & Ursula CA), Wilna Manefeldt, Eugenie Grundlingh, Johan Hugo, Chris Windell, Christo Bresler, Christelene le Grange, Burna Kirsten, Colene Theunissen and Louis Lourens.
He will also be missed by many other relatives, friends and colleagues.
After graduating from High School, he studied accounting at the University of Natal, which he completed in 1971. He completed his BA degree in 1974, Higher Education Diploma in 1975, BA (Hons) in 1983, MA (Cum Laude) in 1990 and D.Litt et Phil degree in 1993.
He often spoke of his parents’ support and guidance over these many years of studying.
In South Africa he worked as a High School Teacher, High School Guidance Counsellor and School Psychologist.
After completing his D.Litt et Phil degree in August 1993, he started his own Psychological Practice in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa.
Delwynne and Henry met in Durban, South Africa, on November 5, 2000, and decided soon afterwards to make the big trek to Canada. They settled in Victoria, BC, in May 2006.
Shortly after arriving in Canada, he continued practising as a registered Psychologist with the Vancouver Island Psychological Services firm (previously A. T. Malcolm & Associates, Inc.) in View Royal, Victoria, BC.
Delwynne and Henry were avid travellers. Places they visited include Las Vegas, New York, Montreal, Zimbabwe, Germany and Switzerland, and also many trips back to South Africa. He also loved hiking and nature. They were always heading into the forests on weekends, taking in the fresh air and beauty of nature.
Delwynne was an esteemed singer, having sung the Tenor role in many performances, including Handel’s Messiah, Bach’s Oratorio, Beethoven’s Mass in C major, to mention a few. He also sung with the Victoria Opera in Victoria.
He had a big generous heart and a kind soul who always wanted to help others. He wanted to make a difference and see people smile. It brought him great comfort.
A Funeral Service for Delwynne was held on Monday, August 8, 2022, at 10:00am, in McCall Gardens Sequoia Centre located at 4665 Falaise Drive, Victoria, BC. A procession to the Royal Oak Burial Park, 4673 Falaise Drive, will follow the service.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the BC Cancer Agency, 2410 Lee Avenue, Victoria, BC, V8R 6V5, or to the Air Canada Foundation, (Zip 1235) 7373 Cote Vertu Boul West, Dorval, Quebec, H4Y 1H4.
Immediately following the interment at the Royal Oak Burial Park, the family welcomes you back to McCall Gardens Sequoia Centre for a catered reception.
‘He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning nor crying nor pain any more, for the former things have passed away.” – Revelation 21:4
Condolences may be offered to the family below. To view service recording click arrow below,
McCall Gardens
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Henry and Harvey
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Sheila O'Hare I have just found out about Delwynne’s passing. I was fortunate to meet him in 2014 during a difficult time. He was the kindest, wisest, most understanding soul. I deeply respected and appreciated him. I read a quote from another on this forum that sums things up. If all the world was like Delwynne, there would only be peace.
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Tammy My sincere condolences to Henry and family, friends and colleagues. I knew Delwynne as a professional. He was a great person. One of the most sensitive, trustworthy individuals I have ever known. You will be missed by many. Rest In Peace Delwynne.
Sincerely,
Tammy
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Kim Fitzer Kind, wise, gentle, funny, and always giving – that is how I will remember you over our many coffees. This world was a better place that you were in it, Delwynne. You will be missed.
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Joanne Fox I was saddened to hear of Delwynn’s battle with cancer, and of his passing. I knew Delwynn through my dental hygiene clinic. He was such a beautiful man. A definite earth angel. I will miss our visits when he would come to see me for his cleanings. Delwynn had a special gift of always make my day brighter. My deepest condolences to Henry, and to all who loves this very special man.
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Joe Stead Condolences to Family and Friends.
Thank you “Doc.” for all of your advice and help throughout the years. I will miss our conversations. And I will miss you. Never forgotten.
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Tamara Goranson Delwynne’s unconditional positive regard for people was his legacy as a psychologist and as a person. He had a gentleness about him that was grounding. The community has lost a shining star in the profession, a gem of a person who will be missed by many.
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Emily Pienaar I had the privilege to work with Delwynne at Nothern Natal Psychological services and have only respect for him as a person and colleague.
Emily Pienaar
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Bev Garner Am saddened by the passing of a man memorable in many ways especially his respect for all, work standards and ethics, delightful smile and laughter and much more. He was influential in all our services in Northern KZN Psychological clinic so many years ago.
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Sally My condolences,Henry.
My thoughts & Prayers are with you.
God Bless.
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Trevor Delwynne
You will be dearly missed and hard to replace you and the hole in my heart after the time we have spent together, good bye My Brother.
May the Creator send Good Medicine and Guidance to your family in this time, as you carry on your next chapter or journey..hard to try an replace a friend as well as a professional that you were.
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Atholl Malcolm If all the world was like Delwynne, there would only be peace.
Atholl and Lynn
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Kiki D. Henry, I’m so so sorry for your loss.
He’s no longer in pain and if love could have kept Delwynne alive he would still be here right now. I hope that in time you are able to draw some comfort from the fact that you both got to experience this great love!
I only knew of Delwynne through you but I will remember him with fondness and gratitude for the light that he was in your world.
Thinking of you.
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Jenny Love; love;love.
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Ellen Connell I had the pleasure and privelege to be a colleague of Delwynne’s for several years at AT Malcolm/VIPS. He was a gentle, humble man who shared his insights and his dry humor generously with those around him. He was kind and encouraging to a fault. My deepest condolences to Henry and to all Delwynne’s family. May your cherished memories provide some comfort in the difficult times ahead.
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Brigitte Thompson j. Van Rensburg Dear Delwynne, I recall the emails of encouragement with my own studies…the many invitations to visit Canada….I cherished your wisdom and gentle words within our storms. May you find comfort Henry, in the unity of many voices that proclaim Delwynne as the special person he was and in your relationship with him. Thank you for caring and loving him. May you find comfort in the coming days of loss. We are thinking of you…Brigitte and Mom (Joey Windell).
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Yolanda van Rensburg (South Africa) Love you always, dearest, kindest, most humble, respectful Delwynne…❤️ Thank you Henry for taking such good care of him…❤️
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Scott I am saddened by the passing of “Doc”. He was truly a kind caring and supportive man. As a patient it was the best I have ever worked with honest and meaningful suggestions. He saved my life!!! I can never thank him enough. For the family your loss is great and I hope you find comfort in hearing more about how great of a human he was.
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Carol Hallett Henry – my heart goes out to you and family members. I can’t find the right words to express the sadness I am feeling but please know you are in my heart and thoughts. Delwynne touched my life in the most wonderful way. I have such fond memories of great conversation and laughter with you both. Sending love and hugs.
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Byron Henry, I am so sorry for your loss. Delwynne was the most compassionate and kindest person I ever had the privilege of knowing. He embraced life and encouraged me to do the same in ways that I had never considered and that are easily overlooked. Nature’s beauty and how it can literally take your breath away, the joy of listening to or singing a song that makes your heart soar, and the gift of living in the moment in a world that can so easily be filled with what ifs and what comes next. My life is all the better for having known him and I will remember him not with sadness but with gratitude for how his kind words and counsel changed my life, and those of so many others, for the better.
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Kathy My sincere condolences to you Henry. During the few times that I met Delwynne, I immediately felt like I had met a wonderful and kind hearted man. It was easy to see that you were very blessed to have such a wonderful and close relationship. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended families at this difficult time.
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Jenny and Deon You were a great blessing in our lives. I will miss our Sunday video call chats. Thank you for taking such good care of Henry for 22years. You will be missed and i will always remember you. You had a huge positive impact in our lives and we have great memories of you. Baby baby I will miss you alot. Lots of hugs Jenny and Deon xxxx
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Jacqueline Bekker My dear friend Delwynne.. What a great guy…he was the nicest, funniest, caring friend. I have never laughed with anyone as much as I laughed with him. He is going to be SO missed by so many of us. Will remain in a special place in my heart forever.
Dearest Delwynne. You recently spent your 2nd birthday in heaven. Never far away from my thoughts, ever so still part of me. Although life might have moved on for me, you are still not forgotten. Grant onto him oh Lord eternal rest, and may light perpetual shine upon him. hr