June 25, 1918 to April 21, 2009
It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of our precious wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, Betty Imogen Scuby (nee Ellison). Known as ‘Nana’ to family and friends alike, with much dignity she passed away peacefully in her sleep, at home in her own bed, on Tuesday, 21 April, 2009, after a long battle with Alzheimer’s disease.
Born and raised in Capilano, North Vancouver, she met the love of her life Bill, in Prince Rupert in the ’40’s. They spent their early years in Prince Rupert, moving with sons John and Joe to Victoria in 1962. She was a wonderful cook, an avid gardener, loving and attentive mother and brilliant grandmother. She was an active member of the Women’s Auxiliary at St. Luke’s Church and a most hospitable hostess. She was a caring woman who loved children of all ages and animals, particularly the two St. Bernards she helped raise.
Nana was a most gentle woman and true lady with a caring heart. She loved life and was thankful for all that it provided. She was impressed by the simple wonders of nature, kindness, truth and most importantly good manners and politeness. She lived by this code and insisted her family did as well. She did not suffer fools gladly nor people who mistreated others.
We will all miss her playfulness, wicked sense of humour, her compassion for all forms of life and her beautiful voice when she broke into song. She was one in a million and will be missed by all.
Nana was predeceased by her sister Molly in 1973. She will be sorely missed by her husband Bill, sons John and Joe (Louise), granddaughter Tara (Paul), grandsons Gregory, Joshua and Matthew (Kathleen), and great grandson Charlie.
Our family wishes to thank Nana’s caregivers and the Victoria Hospice staff for their efforts during her illness. They worked tirelessly to ensure Nana received the best of care and that she was able to maintain her dignity throughout.
Arrangements have been made through McCall’s Funeral Home, Victoria.
There will be a Church Service at St. Mary’s Anglican Church, 1973 Cultra Ave., Saanichton, on Monday, 27 April, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. with interment to follow at nearby St. Stephen’s Anglican Cemetery, 7921 St. Stephen’s Rd., Saanichton.
In lieu of flowers we invite donations to the Victoria Hospice or the Alzheimer’s Society of BC.
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roger hemeon
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Howard Lee Bill and family,
I was sadden to hear the passing of Betty. I have fond memories of the three of us having breakfast in the kitchen and enjoying that beautiful view. She was a very special person. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Howard
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Wendy Gedney Dear Bill, Joe & Louise & John,
My sincere sympathy to you all on your loss of Betty. Such a sweet and dear person. You captured her so well in her obituary.
My heart and prayers are with all the family.
Wendy Gedney
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Suzanne (Bramley) Sutton Dear Bill, John, Joe and Families,
I have so many fond memories of growing up as your neighbour on Duart Road ~ Betty’s warm smile and beautiful laugh are as clear to me today as if it were yesterday. She always made ‘the kids’ feel so welcome! Sending warm wishes and deepest sympathy to you all at this difficult time.
Suzanne (Bramley) Sutton
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Rob and Jane Edwards Dear Bill , John , Joe and Louise and the Scuby Family… even when you know the time is close, it does not dull the loss and the heartache. What a special person who treasured her husband, her sons and their partners and her precious grandchildren and great grandchild . God chooses the most beautiful flowers for his garden and today an elegant rose bush has appeared by his side. We miss her but know she is in good hands. Our love to you all. Rob and Jane
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The McInnis Family We were so sorry to read of Betty s passing. Sending our thoughts and prayers to you all, at this difficult time.
In sympathy, Nita McInnis and Family
(- Joe, I remember Shawnigan Lake, and how you tried to drown me. Nita)
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Erin Wright Hi Mr. Scuby,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. My heart and thoughts go to you and your son’s during this difficult time. She has gone to an easier place…All my heart….
Erin Wright
Broadmead Hearing Clinic
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Victor & Susan Kendziora Sorry for your loss , i can tell the reflection of your mother by the Scubys on part of my family the Mehrs and Kendzioras the love has been passed on .
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Michael Kinnie Reading the notice brought back memories of Capilano, where I grew up in the log house that your mother would have remembered well. I am the oldest son of Pearl Kinnie (nee Young). My mother died in Ladner May of 2005. She often spoke about her childhood and when she did she allways mention Molly and Betty Ellison. I knew the house that your mother and aunt lived in during that time on what became Gladwin Ave. This is now a part of the Upper Levels Highway.
As a child, every Sunday during good weather, we would walk from Capilano, over the old Keith Rd. bridge to West Vancouver to visit Mrs. Ellison at her home on Duchess Ave. near Taylorway.
I send you my deepest empathy on the passing of betty.
Yours turly
Michael Kinnie
AKA Jesse Oliver
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Michael, Heidi (Kendziora),Coady Rankin Mr Scuby, Joe, Louise and family:
Sorry for your loss of Nana. Although we did not know Nana, we have certainly experienced Nana through all of your thoughtfulness and kindness expressed to our family over the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Michael, Heidi(Kendziora) and Coady.
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Jim Keegan John – I am very sorry to learn of your mother’s passing and my deepest sympathies to you and the rest of your family. I hope you will take comfort in the knowledge that she lived such a long and full life.
Jim Keegan
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Micheal & Patricia Mialkowsky Sending along our sympathies and condolences. May all the good memories fill the void in your lives.
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Tony Kendziora Joe and Louise, family and Mr. Scuby, our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother, (grandmother and wife). Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
Tony and Joanne Kendziora and family
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Brett Morgan Sorry to hear of Betty ‘s passing . My thoughts are with you
Dear Bill:
A short note to say how sorry I was to read of your wife’s passing a few days ago. Know her illness was a protracted one and the road has not been easy for anyone ,nevertheless your loss will leave a large hole in your life. Sally and I share your sorrow and send our deepest sympathy to you and your family
Sincerely ,Roger