It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our Husband, Father and Grandfather, Patrick James Wickens. Surrounded by his loving family and rather unexpectedly, sadly Pat passed away on October 3rd, 2022.
Pat was born in Victoria on November 14th, 1947. He grew up in both Victoria and on Salt Spring Island before he met the love of his life Krystyna. They were married in 1970 and spent the next 52 years together raising a family, laughing, loving and enjoying one another. Pat will be dearly missed by his loving wife Krystyna, sons Kasey, and Randy (Danielle), granddaughters Alysha with partner D’Shawn, Kenzie and his sister Kriss Wickens.
Pat was a devoted family man and always someone we could count on with whatever and whenever was needed. He had many interests in life which included: sports, coaching, carpentry, hot rods and music. However, nothing was more important to him than his family. This is a value that he has instilled in all of us. Pat loved nothing more than watching his sons and granddaughters play multiple sports but especially baseball/softball. You would often find Pat at the ball fields conversing with friends, looking for foul balls and occasionally giving it to the umpires!
Pat was a tremendously skilled carpenter whose skills and knowledge were second to none. Patrick was very quick witted and had an absolutely amazing sense of humour. He never failed to put a smile on anyone’s face, which in turn put a smile on his face. His generosity and selflessness will never be forgotten. Neither will his ability to change lyrics in songs to get a laugh. This skill he likely learned from a man he cherished, his Uncle Ted. One thing that always seemed to bring joy to Patrick was the love of all the puppies in his life. He was truly an original!
We will miss you and always love you. Rest in peace.
Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Gardens
www.mccallgardens.com
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Kelly Summerfield
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Terry Cain Krys, Casey and Randy; I’ve known Pat since 1970. Pat loved his job and he was good at it. I learned many tricks of the trade from him. His knowledge of carpentry was so valuable to the core crew. Pats sense of humor was endless. Always jovial and saw many issues as little things. Don’t fret over them he’d say. He loved sports and his boys were great athletes, playing multiple sports. We’d chat all day about how games and progress were evolving. Pat was a wonderful support for his boys as they played their sports. He was a great pop. He will most certainly be missed by all that had the opportunity to work with him, his friends, and his sports families. Pat always placed his family first in every aspect.
Deepest condolences to you Krys, Casey and Randy
Terry Cain
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Debbie Marchand (Thornton) I was so sorry to hear the news about cousin Pat. What a difficult time for everyone in the Wickens family! My memories of Pat go way back to when we were together at all the Curtis family events. It was such a fun time with so many cousins to play with. Pat often led the way at adding more “excitement” to the already boisterous gatherings by playing tricks on the aunts, uncles and cousins. Uncle Ted’s singalongs with his invented lyrics were also a highlight of any family get together so I was happy to hear that Pat took up that tradition.
I’m thinking of all of you and hoping you’re finding comfort in the many memories you’ve shared with him.
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Alex Burnell Dear Krys and family
I was devastated to read of Pat’s recent passing. I had hoped that he would have had more time to enjoy life.
He was to me a wonderful example of a life well-lived through kindness and integrity.
We met almost sixty-five years ago and shared a friendship highlighted by much laughter and never anger between us.
Although we hadn’t been in touch as much in recent years, I knew that we would always be friends.
He was a great family man and a great friend to me. I shall truly miss him and share your grief.
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Doug Young Condolences to the Wickens family. My memories go back to the 60’s before I moved to Vancouver in 1971 and it seemed to be only at funerals we met after that. One summer, cousin Pat had me helping him doing some roofing jobs and we had a great time singing songs while we shingled away on the roof. I can confirm that his changing of song lyrics went back to that time. He let me drive his car home from a job one night and I was not used to driving a vehicle with such a powerful engine. I spun it out from the first stop sign and Pat quickly took over the wheel. Pat was 4 years and one day older than me and I always thought the clothes he wore were cool. He was the first guy I knew who wore a brown corduroy suit jacket on casual outings and I saved up and bought one myself. He told me that if you were on the dance floor and loudly yelled out during a fast song, that at least one other person would yell back. I tried it out when I moved to Vancouver and he was right. It is fascinating what you remember and I will really treasure these “Pat” memories now. Gone but never forgotten.
Doug Young (cousin)
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Kim Kenyon I will never forget Pat bringing us “ The big donut “ to Teachers.
Thinking of you and the boys Krys.
Xo xo
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Wayne Cox I am sorry to hear of Pat’s sudden passing. I will maintain fond memories of many conversations with Pat over a coffee at the Carpenter’s Union office. Pat’s sense of humor provided a good break from the stress of the day. When I was an apprentice, I had the good fortune to work with Pat on a job for only one day, but on that day, he taught me how to install a T-bar ceiling, then he said, you lay out the next room. Pat was a good teacher and you would be lucky to be partnered with him. Rest in peace Brother.
Wayne Cox
Carpenter’s Local 1598, retired
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Lance Burrows To the entire Wickens family from the Burrows family, our thoughts are with you at this truly difficult time. Growing up in Gordon Head and playing ball with Randy and Kase since Little League, Pat was a staple at the yard with Krys and a husky always by his side. His sense of humour and one liners were unmatched and could always make me laugh. Pat was definitely one of a kind and I’m glad I got to see him this summer at The Yew Bat tourney in Courtenay while playing along side Kase. Pat will be missed by many and I’m sure he’s up top throwing soft toss to Johnny out of his infamous silver bucket.
Rest easy Wick – Scooter (Lanny Burrows)
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Joette and Bob Burrows Chris and family. Bob and I are so very sorry for your loss. Pat was a good man. The fun we had watching our boys play baseball was great! Pat was so supportive of everyone. He helped complete our sundeck, and did a super job! We so appreciated his fine work. I was in the kitchen, and could hear Bob and Pat “cackling” while working, no doubt from one of Pat’s many stories. He will be missed!
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Luigi and Bev Lise We were very sorry to hear of Pat’s passing.
Our deepest condolences to all the family
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Pat burke Sorry to read about Pat. He was a good friend and neighbour Pat and Denise Burke
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Dale Aune Dear Krystyna,Kasey,Randy and family, we are so sorry to hear of Patrick’s sudden passing. We have such fond memories from back when the boys played baseball us little ones at Lambrick and right into adulthood seeing himself and Krystyna at the games sometimes cheering for opposite teams. We would usually always see a husky walking with Patrick and Krystyna throughout GordonHead. Patrick with his awesome carpentry skills completely finished our downstairs family room with a beautiful bar for our family functions. We have held multiple family functions in that room and spend a lot of our time there. Hug each other tight and remember all the good memories over the years .Patrick may be gone but will always be remembered as a great husband,father,grandfather,brother and friend to all that had the privilege to know what a great guy he was. Sending our deepest condolences to you all. Sharon and Dale Aune
We were deeply saddened about Patrick’s passing. We met while walking the trail and Finnagan immediately knew Patrick was a friend. Visits became part of our daily routine. The cookies and water were always better at Patrick’s house. Patrick was a kind, generous man with an abundance of humour. We miss you.
Our deepest heartfelt condolences Krys, Kasey, Randy and family. May many fond memories of your husband, father, grandfather and friend console you in your grief.
Kelly, Trev, Finny and yes…Alley